Post Date April, 15 2023
What a good woman looks like? I believe most men have a similar standard in their hearts: beauty, gentleness, virtue, and so on. However, today's women are more assertive and elegant, and they no longer change themselves to cater to men. This is the "new" good woman that men appreciate, admire, and admire.
"The new good woman" needs to be beautiful, confident, independent, tolerant, and able to get out of the hall and into the kitchen... To be a good woman, it is also necessary to keep pace with the times. In the past, a woman without talent was virtuous, and then she was a husband and a child, busy with housework all day long. Today, of course, the standards for good women have changed.
1、 High quality.
This is one of the first requirements for a new good woman. Nowadays, not knowing how to manipulate computers has become "semi illiterate". In some cutting-edge technology fields, there are more and more young girls, such as software development, which is no longer dominated by men. As the saying goes, "Character determines destiny." Today, we should say, "Quality determines destiny.".
2、 A lot of confidence.
Confident women do not become arrogant and domineering all day long. The way to surpass men is not to oppress them under their own hegemony, but to live and stretch like them. Confidence is not arrogance. Confidence is believing, and only believing can lead to happiness.
3、 Complete and independent.
New Good Women have a complete and independent personality. In terms of economy, she does not rely on anyone because she understands that a solid economic foundation is necessary to maintain her own dignity. So she enjoyed the sense of achievement in her career; Spiritually, she is not an accessory of a certain man, but more self conscious. They pursue their own values and goals.
4、 Determined and full of innovative spirit.
Modern women are extremely progressive about their work. This state is indeed the most advanced and effective way of life for modern people: to act quickly and decisively, and never procrastinate. Starting from self, not paying attention to harmony with the surroundings. If there is a dispute, it is only about the matter and not about the person. There is no complacency, no conformism, and emphasis on innovation.
5、 Never forget to learn.
In a rapidly changing technological world, if you don't advance, you will retreat. New and good women understand this, so they constantly enrich themselves and improve their knowledge and skills. She may not have a natural advantage, but she does believe in the efforts of the day after tomorrow. She works harder than men, not because she lacks confidence in herself, but because she is more ambitious than men.
6、 Tolerance, allowing for the existence of different life concepts.
There is no right or wrong concept of everything in the world. Everyone has their own way to go higher, perhaps going the same way, and ultimately we stand on the same highest point. New and good women can tolerate, respect others' choices, and identify with others' lifestyles.
7、 Out of the hall into the kitchen.
Don't assume that modern women are all skittish and only know how to make money. Occasionally, they also need to go to a kitchen and cook a delicious meal for their husband. The atmosphere of life requires their own innovation. She is not an unchanging role, and her activities between professional women and a good wife and mother are not ambiguous in terms of venue and role.
8、 Is always seeking charm.
Women are greedy. Of course, they must be greedy for beauty. Beautiful women are not necessarily born beautiful, but they definitely know how to dress up. Let the mood of each day brighten up with the makeup. They are beautiful, not to please men, not a manifestation of vanity, but an expression of women's love for life and maintenance of self-esteem.
Just as men want to live for women, women also live for men. So how to evaluate women, men should have the right authority. For example, what a good woman looks like, I believe that most men have a similar standard in their hearts: beautiful, gentle, virtuous, and so on. However, today's women are more assertive and elegant, and they no longer change themselves to cater to men. This is the "new" good woman that men appreciate, admire, and admire.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
