Post Date April, 15 2023
Youth, without too many ifs, is so fleeting, fleeting, and unable to reproduce. Everyone's youth is the period when they encounter the most love. Although we may come into contact with many members of the opposite sex during this period, we can only marry one of them. Through contact and understanding, we can ultimately determine who can stay together for a lifetime. Even the most suitable couple can have a more or less broken relationship. What effective ways to save love are there to prevent us from harboring resentment towards the beautiful love and not regretting missing our most beloved partner?
1、 Correct mindset and take the initiative
Behavior is the external manifestation of inner activities. In times of emotional crisis, what kind of mentality is destined to achieve what kind of results. We often see that couples encounter disagreements, and after an argument, they immediately experience a cold war. They don't talk to each other, they don't see each other, and they wish they would die of old age and not communicate with each other from then on. Whoever doesn't give the other a step first will never take the first step voluntarily. In fact, we do this because we can subconsciously feel that the other person will not leave us. However, cases of breaking up despite falling in love are very common today. It is truly regrettable that two people, who clearly care about each other in their hearts, have achieved such a tragedy. When it comes to redemption, we can ask ourselves, am I really in love with each other? Are you very determined to be with the other party? Since you care, then choose to take the initiative. The process of retrieving love may be quite painful, but what's wrong with letting go of some body shape compared to the sweetness ultimately obtained? Love itself is not a matter that requires too much face. When we think about each other, our hearts will feel something.
2、 Empathize and explore the other person's psychology
As the saying goes, every family has its own difficult to read scriptures. Although we haven't started a family yet, everyone in this society has their own difficulties and anxieties. Sometimes these difficulties cannot be explained through language, and some partners are very strong. They would rather hold them in their hearts than let the other party worry, let alone be looked down upon by the other party. So we can calm down and empathize during this stage of emotional crisis: what kind of psychology would we have if we were in the other person's situation? What kind of performance do you want your partner to have? What kind of care and love do you expect to receive? The interaction of love is a process of mutual understanding, gradually gaining tacit understanding through contact and integration. Only by clarifying the other party's psychology and exploring their thoughts, thoughts, and needs can one better improve one's own approach and achieve twice the result with half the effort.
3、 Examining oneself and becoming a better self
For the sake of love, we are all willing to do something for each other, but rarely can we make any changes for it. From a psychological perspective, once a person reaches adulthood, they form a fixed personality, temperament, and personality. It is indeed difficult to make some changes based on this, but it is still possible to reshape a certain habit. As is well known, a person can cultivate a good habit in 21 days. We can first examine which aspects of ourselves are inadequate or which habits make the other person feel uncomfortable, and then we can use 21 days to cultivate a certain habit. A person with connotation and temperament is a symbol of strength and a manifestation of charm. Remodeling not only has a promoting effect on love, but also has better capital for oneself.
