Some people say that marital life is bound to experience quarrels. Some couples' emotions sublimate during quarrels, while others break up during quarrels. Du Ting and her husband belong to the latter group. Not long ago, the two negotiated a divorce, and once envied countless golden virgins. The outcome of the divorce surprised many people.
In her job, Du Ting is a very strong woman, and she works like a duck to water in her unit. Her days of promotion are just around the corner. Every day when I return home exhausted, my husband, who has already arrived, is lazily sitting on the sofa watching TV. The kitchen is empty and the room is in a mess. Du Ting, who had expected her husband to prepare meals and wait for her to return home, immediately became furious, and a family war began several times.
I remember one time, at a business reception, Du Ting agreed to deal with several clients, who were so vulgar that Du Ting was bored. However, in order to work, Du Ting had to force a smile on her face and accompany these clients to chat everywhere. "I managed to get out of the wine table and just walked into the house when my husband was playing a game, his voice rising by eight decibels.". However, on that day, Du Ting was already mentally enraged and walked forward to turn off her husband's game console. The husband was somewhat surprised and asked if Du Ting was crazy. Du Ting didn't respond angrily to him. Of course, I wouldn't be as comfortable as you are. The tone irritated her husband, and the two of them quarrelled with each other until they finally negotiated a divorce. None of them wanted to save their marriage.
"Workplace Emotion" Affects Couple Emotions When Bringing Home
When you finish your day's work, the family life you desire should be like this: there is relaxing and sweet music playing indoors, dinner is wafting an alluring aroma on the table, and a lover gives you a lingering kiss. All the pent-up emotions at work will suddenly disappear.
This is our imagination of the ideal family life, but the actual situation often runs counter to it. After work, it is easy for couples to bring home their emotions in the workplace, bearing too much harm and grievance in social life. At the moment of pushing the door home, I didn't immediately shake off my professional role as a supervisor or subordinate, and before I had time to give my lover a hug or kiss. At the moment of entering the door, my habitual thoughts seized upon me, or I involuntarily vented my unhappy emotions to my dearest one, triggering a family civil war.
Therefore, when you return home after a day of toil outside, please keep your job search outside the door and pay attention to distinguishing between work and life. You should understand that in addition to work, you have your own life, and family members are your solid spiritual support. If the work pressure is really great, it's better to tell your spouse the difficulties you encounter in detail, and perhaps they can help you solve this knot.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)