Post Date August, 05 2023
Last night, Yang Yang and I sat on the sofa watching TV. The male and female protagonists stood in front of the car, first gazing at each other with affection, and then hugging deeply. When their lips were facing each other, Yang Yang jumped off the sofa and hid in my arms. He smiled at me and put his face close to mine. At that time, I saw that Yang Yang didn't care about me and continued to approach my mouth. I reacted and asked Yang Yang what to do? Yang Yang said, 'I am a TV learner, my mother's mouth.'. Upon hearing that the problem was a bit serious, he pretended to calm down and began to distract Yang Yang's attention. Yang Yang said, "Mom, why did TV Uncle kiss my aunt's mouth? Mom said, only the cheeks and the mouth have bacteria, right? Yes, there are bacteria in the mouth, and adults have resistance. Uncle can kiss his wife's mouth when he grows up To be honest, I was a bit surprised by my own answers.
Kissing can also face it calmly
When my son was over two years old, one day my family and I were watching an American movie, and the scene showed the male and female protagonists kissing. This scene lasted for a long time, and my son was playing nearby, Suddenly he pointed to the picture and asked, "Mom, what are they doing? I can't answer my son's question. At that time, the father sitting next to me said," Let you kiss me! My son seems to hear it. Because he likes the song of Wenhua and Yin Xiangjie, "My sister sits in the bow of a boat," the lyrics of the song contain the words of kissing you. "His son has already memorized it. My father's calm attitude and witty answers made me start to think about what attitude to adopt towards children when there are descriptions of love and sex in the media. When I see some friends kissing and hugging men and women on TV, I switch channels to prevent children from watching. Afterwards, when the child saw such a scene, they shouted loudly that the young man was not suitable, covered their eyes with their hands, and looked out through their fingers. As a result, the parents lost the opportunity to talk to the child about sex and taught them to lie. I don't want to do this, so I have always adopted the Glasnost for my son, and we appreciate it together. Whenever there are scenes depicting the passion of men and women, I actively communicate with them, telling them that when adult men and women develop love, they need to express this emotion through physical contact, such as kissing, hugging, etc., so that they will feel very happy. My son also naturally communicates with me. When such scenes appear on TV, I pay attention to his reaction and he appears very calm.
