Netizen: I'll tell you a true story. I've been struggling these days, please help me come up with an idea. The last time I went to a public bathhouse to take a shower, I accidentally found out that my mother-in-law was gay. It was in the morning, and shortly after the bathhouse opened, she and an aunt from the same hospital were washing inside. They were still doing dirty things, and I couldn't believe my eyes. After confirming, I was almost scared to death. Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law with kind eyes and good eyebrows would have such a shameful thing happen on weekdays.
I have been through the house for three years now, having taken a shower with her and always wiping my back. When I gave birth, she was always with me in the delivery room, and I didn't notice anything unusual about her. But what I saw that day was indeed true. She and Aunt Zhang sat naked in the wiping chair, rubbing against her back with her breasts, and then looked at each other's lower body. I watched it for almost a minute, but later, afraid of being discovered, I sneaked it out. However, I didn't wash it myself, but instead, my stomach felt like I had eaten a fly.
After she returned home that day, I observed that she looked very natural and was still busy with cleaning, buying, selecting, and cooking, as usual. She was still very concerned about her father-in-law. To be honest, I want to tell my husband everything I've seen, but I'm afraid he won't believe me and will blame me for everything. In the past few days, I have continued to observe their interactions, talking and laughing, all the same as before. We still go to the gym, dance, and vegetable market together. I never see anything special in my daily life, and their relationship has always been very good.
I inquired with my husband and found out that my mother-in-law and Aunt Zhang have been friends for over 20 years. The house we built together back then had a front and back courtyard. Aunt Zhang lives alone at home now, and her children are all married and not around. Her husband often runs away, and she is now retired at home. My mother-in-law and father-in-law are very affectionate, and I can see that father-in-law will never get angry with her. Our family is all run by my mother-in-law, and we are very harmonious. Although life is a bit more ordinary, it is very happy. My father-in-law and I are taking care of the children for us, while my husband and I are at work. The child is already 2 years old and enjoys interacting with grandparents.
I'm worried that if someone else finds out about this, the whole family will be in bad luck and no one will have the face to see anyone else. And I have to face my mother-in-law every day. If this matter is not resolved, I feel very conflicted in my heart. It's not right for me to say it now or not, it's really frustrating. What will my husband do if he finds out? How should my mother-in-law and I face each other in the future?
Editor's note: This matter would be a headache for anyone else. However, there are a few suggestions that I would like to say to you: first of all, you have witnessed the situation between your mother-in-law and Aunt Zhang with your own eyes. What is the specific situation? I don't know, but from your description, it can be seen that they are indeed very close. I am a man and I am not familiar with what happens between you women in the bathhouse. But between men, sometimes good friends can flirt with each other occasionally. Although I haven't done it before, it's quite normal. I wonder if the relationship between your mother-in-law and Aunt Zhang is the same? Only you know best. As for looking at each other's lower bodies, perhaps we're talking about their respective body changes? Perhaps discussing gynecological diseases or something? Only they know it themselves. Of course, the possibility of homosexuality cannot be ruled out. However, there is no completely conclusive evidence for the matter. It is best not to think in a disorderly manner, let alone talk nonsense, as the result will definitely hurt feelings. After all, it is an ugly matter, and no one wants to show off.
Secondly, if you are very depressed or even unable to figure it out, you can bring it up to your husband, but pay attention to the methods and methods, don't be too straightforward, as he may not be able to accept it and may even have conflicts with you. You can delve into the relationship and social situation between your mother-in-law and Aunt Zhang from a side perspective, and first listen to your husband's statement. Speak out your own misunderstandings or doubts, and then gently talk to your husband about what you have seen. The starting point must be to let him know that it is for the good of his mother-in-law and the good of his family.
Finally, if the situation is really serious, you and your husband, including father-in-law, must first understand your mother-in-law. Having children and daughters at this age is very important for face saving. For her sake and for the sake of the family, you must patiently help her overcome difficulties, not discriminate against her, forgive her, and care for her. If it's just a little excitement between two good sisters that makes others not understand, then don't make a big deal out of it. It's normal, but you haven't had that kind of experience and it's just that you're not used to it.
Regardless of whether it is or not, you already have a psychological shadow in this area and must eliminate it, whether it is misunderstandings or facts. We must have an attitude of daring to face it.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)