1. Use a variety of cosmetics
In this world, the love of beauty is not the exclusive right of women. Men also have the vision and pursuit of fashion. They will buy different clothes and match them according to the occasion they want to go, and they will also decide to do their hair style, and they will also go to the cosmetics store to buy different kinds of cosmetics. As a result, they also stand in front of the mirror for a long time before going out like girls. They can attract many girls' eyes by manipulating their hair, arranging their clothes, making up, and spraying perfume. If the company stipulates to wear a suit and tie when going to work, it is also rare to see that they wear the same shirt two days, because the men who love beauty pay attention to the details of life and their own taste. Although they have the pursuit of fashion, they will not spend money blindly.
2. Mobile phone
As an indispensable communication tool, mobile phones are convenient and easy to hide a person's secret. Otherwise, why would so many people lock their mobile phones? It is to prevent their privacy from being disclosed. If you find something abnormal with your boyfriend, you can also get some information by observing your mobile phone, such as whether there is any abnormal information or abnormal call records. Of course, if you often do this, your boyfriend will feel disgusted and mistrust him, so don't do it in front of him.
3. Journal
Keeping a diary is the best way to record the past. Looking back over time, you will find that you have experienced so many things. You have changed from a naive child to an adult and then to a husband and father. Unlike women, men can confide in each other when they meet a friend who talks well. They often like to invite several friends out to have a meal, and only say one or two words when they are drunk. So, to understand a man, you can start with his diary, which is quietly hidden in a drawer or in every corner of the room. You might as well spend more time to find the treasure you want. If you accidentally discover his hidden secret, don't blame him for concealing you. White lies just want to protect your vulnerable heart.
4. Do you often chat with QQ
Sometimes I spend more time with QQ than my lover. I use QQ at work, and I still use QQ when I have something to do after work, whether it is chat or other things. Therefore, we spend a lot of time in QQ, and what happens in chat is unpredictable. Both men and women can find an online lover in chat. If a man can resist the temptation, such a man is just a pastime. If a man can't resist the temptation, he will peck at the marriage like an ant insect. Therefore, women can use men's QQ from time to time to see if there are any special people who are always talking to themselves, or observe whether men have any special behavior when chatting, and whether you will turn off the display as soon as you go in, etc. If you find something abnormal, you should make every effort to protect your marriage.
5. Items like paper heart
Around 2004 and 2005, folding heart-shaped items to give to their boyfriend or girlfriend as keepsakes was particularly popular. The party who received the gift, whether it was a lover or not, would keep it in his wallet or in a book and treasure it well. Up to now, some couples still do this. They thought it was childish or not, and it was a chapter of youth after all. So, when you find that such worthless things have been quietly in his wallet, and he cherishes them very much, don't complain that he never forgets the past and ignores your feelings, but everyone needs to keep some memories of the past and warm the way of fighting alone. And you should feel lucky, because he is at least a person who values love and righteousness. Even if your future is not so sure, you can imagine that when he thinks of you one day in the future, you will feel warm.
6. Briefcase commonly used at work
To be a good wife and girlfriend, you should learn how to care about the work of your husband or boyfriend. Sometimes, in order not to let their women worry, men will not say a word no matter how much they are wronged at work, just want you to be happy every day. So, to understand a man's work and care about the pressure he bears outside, you can look at his briefcase and see what he is doing for his family every day tomorrow. Don't put his briefcase at the desk as soon as he comes back. In this way, you can not only be a good wife with understanding, but also help to manage each other's feelings.
7. Able to use condoms
If he stealthily bought a condom and hid it when he didn't mention it to you, and was found by you accidentally, don't rush to put some bad ideas on his head, such as whether he often slept with other women or not. If you think about these, some ideas will be more deeply rooted, and speculation will be filled in the emotional world of two people. It's better to calmly think about why according to his daily life habits. Or you can communicate with him well, choose to believe the reason he said, and give yourself a little time to judge in combination with future observation. Don't rush to make a conclusion. Generally, couples use condoms when having sex for the sake of safety. If they don't want to have babies, this preparation is just right.
8. Game consoles used to play
Playing games, listening to music, watching cartoons, watching ball games and so on are all the ways men use to relieve the pressure of work. So when you find that your husband still hides the game machine he played when he was a child, don't just think that he is addicted to games like a child. In fact, it used to be really a love game, but now it should be a good memory, but now it is not willing to lose it, just like some people love books, and no textbook has been sold from childhood to college. For the current fast pace of life, men can hide their childhood game consoles, which can also be a way to relieve the pressure of work, recall the fun of childhood, and take you to play the game he once won the championship. Would you be unhappy to see such a happy man?
9. Digital camera with a high probability of taking photos
Some men love to play with digital cameras. They always carry them wherever they go, and the sound of clicking is constant. In fact, they finally find that they are basically his own photos. If a woman looks at them, she will feel that this is a more smelly man, and she will not put herself first, so she will be angry for a long time. In fact, there is nothing wrong with narcissistic men. It is no problem whether they should be narcissistic enough to upset others' appetite. Because they have a set of self-affirmation methods and statements to make themselves confident but not publicized, and they are satisfied with their appearance and figure but not too boastful. They love beauty, love themselves, and are not influenced by others. They can entertain themselves and infect others.