In psychology class, Professor Guan is currently teaching: Last time after class, a boy handed a note: "I am a relatively introverted person, but I don't have any special skills. I don't know how to play football or basketball... My only hobby is writing. After entering university, I saw my classmates around me who are versatile, like fish in water, and able to handle things freely. I was very envious. As I was about to enter society, how should I plan my future?"... Professor Guan, I think I should still be a masterpiece Home is relatively good, and being alone is also good, don't you think? Should I answer this question Professor Zhou raised the note in his hand.
Answer - Answer - "The students were in high spirits, and" Writer's Dream "was a life-saving straw for many people who were afraid of competition!
Professor Guan put down the note in his hand and said, "Okay, today I will answer this classmate in person - my attitude is simple: anyone who dreams of writing is an escapist and incompetent person
Before the words fell, there were already catcalls below.
Let me ask you, who wouldn't know about a pen or a piece of paper? Becoming a writer is that simple, and everyone knows it. I often say that first-class talents are in the military and business circles, second-rate talents are in politics, and third-rate talents are in academia. For military personnel, you lead 100000 people, I lead 100000 people. Without skills, the 100000 who die is yours. What is needed here is comprehensive quality, a challenge, so military personnel are the strongest. The same goes for business circles, Invest two billion yuan, and in three months, your family may fall apart. Why don't you do it? What is needed is the same quality. The political world is different. He can adjust and detour, but if policies cannot be changed, there is room for improvement, but he must take responsibility. In the academic community, one cannot do it twice, two cannot do it three times... never can. The success or failure of soldiers and businessmen is clear at a glance, only writers can advance or retreat, regardless of the outcome... "Someone nodded thoughtfully.
When a famous writer gave a lecture at a university, a classmate asked him how he could become a writer. He said, "First of all, support your family, and then become a writer!" Professor Guan looked at everyone seriously, with a natural expression of deep love in his eyes, In the Analects of Confucius, it is recorded that once Confucius came to the state of Wei and saw that there were many people in Wei, he said, 'Shu Yi Zai,' which means' Wei has many people. 'Someone next to him asked,' If there are both Shu Yi, what should we do? 'which means' how should we do if there are many people?' - The question arises, and if there are many people, what should we do? What do you think Confucius would say
Everyone is very confident, a great educator.
Professor Guan smiled and shook his head, "Confucius said, 'Rich.' - Confucius said, 'Let them become rich.' You think that education is necessary when you have people, but you don't know that before education, you must first make people rich. Others also ask, 'If you are already rich, what should you do?' - 'After people become rich, what should you do?'
Teach it - "Everyone smiled knowingly. Yes, only when people are wealthy can they have the conditions to receive education. When food and clothing are not good or warm, education is empty talk. Moreover, it is not kind to talk about education to people who are insecure about food and clothing. Confucius is truly an educator, and the significance of his' not rich or not teaching 'is profound! According to psychologist Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory, only after meeting basic physiological needs can one consider the needs of safety, love, and being loved There will be a need for self actualization
For example, for a couple who tighten their belts to live, on Valentine's Day, when their husband grits his teeth and sends his beloved wife a large bouquet of roses, how does the wife feel
Romantic, right
It's waste! "The students argued.
Why don't you give me a pair of fur gloves? Look, my hands have frozen again this winter, and I've spent a lot of money unjustly... "Professor Guan said jokingly, and everyone also understood through their laughter.
When people are nervous about their lives, they don't think about romance. That's the enjoyment of wealthy people. Let me ask you a common sense: what do males give to females when they pursue them
Insects
Yes, as soon as the worm is given away, the female bird will understand: this guy has strong survival ability. Follow him, and our children won't go hungry in the future. This is a truth that even birds understand
It's extremely quiet below, afraid of missing any words from Professor Guan.
Since ancient times, people have said, 'Hunger and cold lead to theft.' Only when one can eat well and dress well can the younger generation lead a normal life. If there is no food to eat, even their parents' things will be snatched to eat, let alone their brothers'. When people fall into the worst state of life, they do not care about morality. This is the true nature of humanity. The ancient philosopher of China As early as thousands of years ago, the true morphology of humanity has been pointed out
It is impossible for mortals to maintain etiquette even when food and clothing cannot be satisfied
If we hope that this animalistic nature will not appear, and we hope that our most ideal human nature will be revealed, and in order to maintain social order, improve morality, and understand each other's manners, and live a happy life, we must ensure that everyone has their own income. In other words, we must make money for everyone. Based on obligations, we must make money
You must make money—— It seems that the so-called "people-oriented" is not much understood by us compared to the ancients.
If a male loses his ability to survive, he loses his innate male nature. History has shown that the misfortunes of a man and a nation stem from poverty. The so-called 'combination of poverty and illness' and' extreme poverty and evil '... Therefore, you must realize that earning money is a public morality, and you should value it. I tell you this: boys, you can't play football, basketball, poetry, piano, or cook. You can do anything No, but one must be able to earn money
Professor Guan's words are precise and penetrating. I feel that many boys' eyes are shining, do they see pressure or hope?
Finally, let me give you another example. You should think carefully. For example, when the Spring Festival is approaching, the wife said, 'It's time for the Spring Festival. Our parents want to come to Shenzhen to see us and our little grandson.' Her husband immediately said, 'What are you coming for? It's not for use at all! We're already busy enough, let them come over again, it's just a mess! Besides, it's inconvenient for the elderly on the way!' What's the state of this man now
Angry and despondent! "Someone replied with a smile.
Remember, all men who get angry and frustrated are poor men. But in another family, the wife said, 'Husband, it's almost Spring Festival, and the elderly people want to come and see us. We haven't seen each other for a year!' The husband said, 'Oh, good, good, we should let them come. That way, you can let them come by plane.' This man is not angry and frustrated, he is very calm.
Also, you see, our house has three floors and seven or eight rooms, which are cold and quiet, and the children are not accompanied to play. Grandpa and grandma are here, or grandma and grandpa are here, and the family is full of vitality. It's great to have vitality during the Chinese New Year! Why did he say that? Because this man has money, he is not afraid. He has a place to live and has money to let his parents come over. He has a way to show his filial piety, and this kind of man often doesn't lose his temper. Because he has a great deal of control and a good foundation, anything can be resolved and treated calmly by him.
Then, the whole family happily celebrated the Spring Festival. When the old man left, the gentleman asked his wife, 'Do parents have any requirements?'‘ No, they are all very happy and have no demands at all The gentleman said, 'I heard them. They said the third person is getting married and doesn't have a house to live in. They want to vacate a house to live in the old one.'. How can this be done? In this way, if we spend 60000 yuan in our hometown, we will give 30000 yuan, and our third brother will take 30000 yuan. We will build a two-story small building for them to live in, so our parents won't have to move
After hearing this, the wife hugged her husband and couldn't speak. Which wife wouldn't be grateful for such a husband? Okay, the house has been built. My younger brother said that my brother-in-law is a good person, and the whole village envies him. My parents are happy, and our family lives happily. 30000 yuan is just his one month salary, and he is willing to contribute this 30000 yuan
Professor Guan finally said, 'You choose which one you are willing to do. However, remember that knowledge does not necessarily bring money, earning money depends on ability.'.