Post Date April, 15 2023
"You won't be too nervous, too reserved, too deliberate, or too pretentious.". By his side, you feel very warm, very calm, and even your complexion will improve. This is the most basic magnetic field communication of human beings, which does not require any language.
Every smile from him will make you feel sunny, and every word from him will melt the ice inside you. You can be the real you as much as you can. If he makes you feel high cold and stressed rather than warm and relaxed, then you need to reconsider whether you want to be with him.
Magnetic fields do exist. "I once had an experience when I entered a new place, and others observed that my face was greenish and yellow, but later, when a very talkative person came in, others said that I became" radiant "and looked much better.". This is the function of a magnetic field. A good partner is bound to make you comfortable, warm, and multiply your positive energy.
Secondly, you must be able to chat.
"It's not about simply talking about how much cabbage costs, whether Bayern lost or won, whether my work today went smoothly or not, but about things that you can both enjoy and focus on.". Your insights can match those of the other person, and your values can also echo those of the other person.
"You don't need to be at the same level as the other person in everything, but at least, you're willing to listen, understand, and feel interesting about what the other person is saying, rather than just saying something out of context.".
In short, he must understand you, understand you, and have a common topic with you.
Again, you must have some common interests.
With common hobbies, you can do something together, such as cooking, running, mountaineering, doing public welfare, and so on. The relationship between two people must be enhanced by doing things together. If you don't have common interests and don't want to stay together to do things, how do you get along?
Finally, you must have similar three outlooks and living habits.
Everything we do is determined by our living habits and three values. The environment we lived in, the stories we experienced, and the education we received from childhood have made us who we are today.
If you have a partner who is close to each other, it will be easier for you to reach consensus and accommodate each other when making consumption decisions or other matters; If you have a partner with similar habits, you will also live a happier and happier life,
At least you won't argue about whether to add salt or vinegar to this dish, whether the meatball is rice dumpling or Yuanxiao (Filled round balls made of glutinous rice-flour for Lantern Festival), and other trivial matters. You can also reach a better sharing plan on household matters.
This is actually saying that we need to find a person who is easier to reach consensus and affirm each other, and who doesn't need to change too much for each other in life.
If you have such a partner, I really want to congratulate you well.
For girls, we not only need to "find" a man who can "nurture" you, but also need to become a woman who can "nourish" others.
We can read more and expand our horizons.
We can travel more and enhance our tolerance.
We can exercise more to improve our temperament.
We can speak more and improve our expression.
"When you become a better person, you will have a better magnetic field, and at the same time become a more attractive and nurturing person.".
I think the person who raised you was never "found", but attracted by you. isn't it?
