Children are an essential part of a family, and such a family can only be complete. However, due to some practical problems in current life, some men may experience some psychological fluctuations when facing the role of being promoted to father. If men want to take better care of their wives and children, they should first learn how to dredge their own psychology.
Generally, men are very happy when their wife becomes pregnant. From the moment their wife becomes pregnant to the moment they give birth, most expectant fathers expect their child to be born a day earlier. But there are also a few prospective fathers who have some psychological problems.
First, influenced by traditional Chinese concepts, some expectant fathers believe that only boys can honor their ancestors, and their excessive attention to the child's gender can only increase the pressure on pregnant women.
Secondly, the pregnancy reaction of the wife, as well as the emergence of some irritability and bad temper, can also cause certain psychological pressure for prospective fathers. In particular, some expectant dads who are not emotionally compatible, have high work pressure, and have a relatively irascible temper are prone to feelings of irritability and boredom during the pregnancy reaction period of expectant mothers.
With the arrival of the perinatal period, worrying about whether pregnant women can give birth smoothly and whether their children are healthy has become a common psychological problem for expectant fathers.
Prospective dads should participate as much as possible in the pregnancy process of their wives. "Learn about pregnancy and childbirth with your wife, accompany her for a prenatal examination, pick her up and take her to work, help her massage, buy baby supplies together, enjoy the joy of fetal movement, and interact with the fetus, such as touching and speaking to her.".