In marriage and family, one party always causes significant harm to the other due to certain reasons. Whether it's household chores, mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationships, money disputes, or extramarital affairs, sometimes marriage is always in a precarious position when these things happen. To save one's marriage at this time, one must learn to apologize. Apologizing is not about saying that the other person is not wrong, but about wanting to save your marriage.
1、 Be sure to dare to apologize
Many people do not know how to mediate when there is a crisis in their family. Either the focus of the problem is unclear, or it is delaying the development of the situation during the tenure. Even if one is wrong, one is unwilling to bow their noble head and say sorry to the other party. Sometimes even getting angry with the other party is because you are so unwilling to admit defeat, such arguments, which makes the other party leave you sad. Sometimes in marriage, as long as there is a glimmer of hope, no one is willing to divorce. So, if you want to save your marriage, you must remember that no one is right or wrong in marriage. Since you and the other person are together, it is the best fate, and there is no need to distinguish between you and me. Because the reasoning is clear, emotions often disappear. Because the other person always thinks that what you always remember is their (or her) kindness. So, be willing to apologize, not because you can't tell who's right and who's wrong, but because you understand that being with the other person in this lifetime is just to be a good lover for them.
2、 We must learn to apologize
When marriage encounters crisis. Many people also understand the harm they have caused to their families and spouses. But I don't know how to make up for my mistakes. So even apologizing always makes the other person feel unnatural or unable to move them. What should I do in this situation? This requires you to first evaluate the consequences of apologizing and not apologizing, and then adopt reasonable and effective apology methods, rather than simply saying "sorry". To apologize, one must sincerely apologize and find ways to do something to make up for the other person. To make the other party feel your sincerity and regret, to let them know your carelessness and negligence in making mistakes, and to make them understand that you have overlooked their love. Once the other party forgives you, you must cherish their tolerance and not make mistakes again and again. Apology is a virtue, a cultivation, and even more open-minded.
Perhaps you haven't had the experience of apologizing in your life, but apologizing is an indispensable ability in marriage. A word can prosper a family, and a word can also ruin it. Things in a family may seem small, but: "Accumulation makes mountains, wind and rain prosper. So, if you want to save your marriage, don't waste small things. A dispute of words can be avoided. Apologizing is a necessary ability to save a marriage.