Sexual Health
Adolescent girls need photos of their mothers. Women need to know 6 personality knowledge
For the arrival of the important physiological period of adolescence, most girls lack necessary preparation in terms of ideology and psychology. They often feel unexpected and sudden about their own changes, especially the arrival of menarche, and do not know what to do. Therefore, girls who enter puberty and those who have already entered puberty need the care, help, and scientific guidance of their mothers.
1. Before a daughter enters puberty, the mother must gradually introduce hygiene knowledge, especially menstrual knowledge. You can also buy some relevant books and picture books for them to read, so that they can know about the changes that are about to occur or have already occurred in their bodies, and be mentally prepared for the arrival of the trend.
2. Provide specific demonstrations, assistance, and guidance to the daughter's menstrual period, and introduce precautions such as menstrual hygiene.
3. Girls are prone to emotional instability during their physical days. Mothers should be concerned, considerate, comforted, and encouraged. When emotional or behavioral abnormalities occur, they should promptly understand the reasons and provide necessary comfort, guidance, and assistance. Don't be blunt, don't ask for reasons, criticize or scold to avoid accidents.
4. As a mother, one should observe the physical changes of a daughter who has not yet experienced menarche, such as whether her breasts, pubic hair, etc. develop on time, whether their development is normal, especially whether menarche arrives on time. If the daughter has not had menarche after the age of 16, she should seek medical advice in time so as to find the dysplasia of the reproductive organs in time and get timely diagnosis and treatment.
5. After entering adolescence, education on outlook on life, sexual knowledge, and self-protection awareness should also be given.
6. After adolescent girls enter puberty, there are significant psychological and emotional changes, which may lead to strange personalities, sadness, worry, anger, and other phenomena. Mothers must understand the reasons and guide them. Mothers should respect their daughters' privacy, not ask questions, nor peek at their daughters' diaries.
Sexual knowledge that women should know
1、 Pregnancy signs
Menstruation stops. Girls who have just started their menstrual cycle may have irregular periods, but they have regular periods and their due date has not yet arrived. They should be vigilant when they have sexual contact with the opposite sex, engage in sexual intercourse, and ejaculate (sperm can live outside the body for 2-3 hours).
Secondly, if the breasts become larger in a short period of time, there will be frequent urination and elevated body temperature later on.
Symptoms such as nausea, vomiting, and oil may appear after 3-5 months of pregnancy.
2、 Detection method
If you have any questions, don't be afraid. You can test yourself first. Use early pregnancy test strips, purchase from a reputable pharmacy, and have a urine test without worrying. The accuracy of the test paper is very high, but it is not foolproof and requires further examination in the hospital. Going to the hospital for examination is also a urine test and B-ultrasound examination, so rest assured that there is no harm.
3、 Psychological preparation
Relax and then relax. Don't panic, don't be afraid. This is not a disease, pregnancy is actually a physiological phenomenon, but it occurs at an inappropriate time. So, the medical term you choose is called termination of pregnancy. In our words, it's called miscarriage.
Firstly, maintain a calm mindset. Don't hide alone and feel sad. Seek help from the person you trust the most. Suggest finding your mother. Although this matter may make her sad, she is the most reliable friend. Firstly, she loves you the most, and secondly, she is an adult who knows how to handle it correctly to minimize harm. If it's really difficult, find your best friend and ask her to find her mother or elders to indirectly help you.
Secondly, courage. Anyway, this thing happened. If it's an accidental injury, it's just a small setback on your life path. You should face it bravely and actively. The road ahead is still long, and there are still many beautiful things waiting for you, right? If it's one's own mistake, taking responsibility for it is an ability that everyone should possess, let alone knowing that mistakes will change. She is still a good girl. In addition, only by choosing an abortion can the harm caused by sex be minimized.
4、 Preparing for miscarriage
If you haven't had a B-ultrasound before, you need to check at this time. The main decision is whether to have a normal pregnancy, that is, intrauterine pregnancy. If it is an ectopic pregnancy, normal abortion methods cannot be used and hospitalization is required. The probability of ectopic pregnancy is very low.
At present, there are two types of abortion methods used in hospitals in China, namely drug induced abortion and induced abortion. Drug induced abortion is suitable within 7 weeks of pregnancy, and artificial abortion is suitable within 10 weeks. If it is confirmed to be a normal pregnancy, start preparing for miscarriage. First, relax your mood. Because at this point, mental health and physical health are equally important. Also, please pay attention to insulation and avoid catching a cold. If you have symptoms of a cold, please seek medical attention immediately and do not miscarry during the cold period. The day before going to the hospital, take a good shower and prepare to change underwear, sanitary napkins, etc.
Because each person's specific physical condition is different, it is necessary to consult a doctor about the type of abortion method to use. Both can cause some harm to the body, but there is no harm. As long as you take good care of it in the later stages, you can quickly recover your health. Medical abortion must be taken under the guidance of a doctor. Do not eat in the morning during induced abortion. Remember, it is important to choose a reputable hospital and professional doctors.
5、 After miscarriage
Rest in bed for about a week, and do not eat raw, cold, or spicy food for a month. Do not use cold water, and it is best not to wash or wash your hair. Immediately after washing, use a warm hair dryer to blow your hair. Don't sit in the bathroom. Eat more nutritious food. It is important to contact the doctor and immediately report any abnormalities to the doctor. Maintain a peaceful mindset.
6、 Take precautions before they occur
Taking emergency contraceptives within 72 hours after sexual activity can also prevent pregnancy. However, birth control pills can also cause harm to the body such as hormonal imbalances and poor mood. But the above are all behind the scenes, about how to reduce damage after pregnancy. How to protect one's body is the best strategy. There are two main situations for middle school students to become pregnant, one is external harm, and the other is their own fault. In order to avoid external harm, we must be careful not to walk alone at night. If a person drives home, it is best to have their family go to the place where they got off the car or pick him up downstairs. If suspicious individuals are found following, go to crowded areas and seek help. Not spending time alone with unfamiliar members of the opposite sex.