Firstly, identifying whether the other party is a virgin;
Based on this complex, to ensure that they can find a virgin to go home, some men will disregard the repeated opposition and rejection of their female partner, rack their brains and demand "trial and error". If the other party is a virgin, then everyone will be happy and dispel their worries before marriage; If you try not to be a virgin, you can make plans again or even avoid breaking up. In short, they are not allowed to take any risks by marrying a non virgin and returning home. The more open society is, the fewer virgins there are, the more they want to take this "reassuring pill".
Perhaps a man's virginity complex is understandable, and even worthy of pity. But it is extremely sad and shameless to disregard the feelings of the woman and engage in selfish and even despicable conspiracy activities with one's own narrowness.
Secondly, due to interest, one cannot wait;
Men who have not experienced sexual activity are mostly not considered mature. Because they cannot feel how a woman should be caressed by a man through some detailed feelings and communication. This kind of caressing is either done or not done, it is indulgent or patient, it is gentle or savage. For a woman who has not married you and has not yet made up her mind or is unwilling to give her body to you, perhaps it can only be caressing, understanding, and patience.
If this is achieved, then it is even more of a kind of love. It is this kind of love that makes them become rational, able to suppress Fang Gang's interest, become forced but able to wait, and be able to balance desire and responsibility. The later maturity is much more reliable, long-term, and energetic than that obtained solely through sexual behavior.
Thirdly, I believe that only by giving him, can I truly love him;
To be honest, I still can't understand the popular misconception on the internet - give it to him if you love him. So I couldn't help but ask: Is it possible that a woman who falls in love with a man must give her body to him, and this kind of giving must be before marriage, before he can give her any guarantee at all? I'm afraid this kind of statement is neither logical nor meaningful, right? There is no love without reason in the world, let alone giving without reason. The dedication of anything is only reliable when willingly given, and only when it comes naturally is it true. Otherwise, any imposition or coercion with any private or unwillingness is immoral and ridiculous.
If you really love her and want her, then treat her well, treat her with sincerity, solve all her worries, dispel any worries in her heart, let her be willing, and give it to you without hesitation.
Fourthly, to test the degree of sexual harmony after marriage;
In real life, although there may seem to be many reasons for the failure of a marriage, more than half of them are related to the lack of harmony in sexual life. Therefore, from this perspective, it is understandable that men require premarital sex. Unfortunately, there are not many men in real life who can have such thoughts purely. They may value the pleasure of their own sexual behavior more. As for whether women can obtain happiness, they often do not consider it. Their so-called test of sexual harmony after marriage mostly comes from personal feelings.
Moreover, the harmony of human life between men and women cannot be simply verified through short-term cohabitation before marriage, as each person has different physiological cycles, and their living environment and work pressure are constantly changing. Moreover, the most important thing is that sexual skills can mostly compensate for the disharmony. So, although this reason is not unreasonable, it is mostly just an excuse.
Fifthly, only for desire, there is no love at all.
As for the last reason, there's no need to say more, because it doesn't even have the slightest technical level. Simply put, it's playing with women and using marriage as a bait to deceive you into sleeping with them. As for the love that frequently springs out of these men's mouths, it can make people laugh their teeth out, not only infecting the environment, but also tarnishing the Holy Spirit. If a woman wants to believe these lies, she can only take it for herself.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)