First, courage
Men should be bold. Only when they are bold can they show masculinity. A man who is as timid as a mouse and is a yes man may not even be a real man. It is not worth talking about being a good husband. I admit that this sentence is a bit extreme, and some people like little men, but I believe that my sentence is still in line with the aesthetic standards of most women.
Second: Carefulness
Most of the time, boldness and carefulness contradict each other. Bold people are often not careful, while careful people always seem not bold enough. To be frank, as husbands in marriage, men's careless bad habits are really bad. Although carelessness is not equal to numbness and heartlessness, the pain it brings to women is often the same as numbness and heartlessness.
Know a careless man. His wife is angry. He doesn't know. If he wants a little romance and tenderness, he can't understand it. Buy it all for his wife
Third: Attendance
I used Liu Xiang's hurdles to describe men's enthusiasm in chasing women, and Yao Ming's height to describe men's arrogance and weight after changing their minds. But these are not terrible, because one is before love, the other is after love, as long as you adjust your mind, the road will go one side to the sky. However, there is another biggest fear, that is, when a woman married, she found that the man was so lazy.
Third: Steady
Almost all marriages need a common element, which is stability. Only by being stable can we have a sense of security, think about happiness, and build happiness. Therefore, those words that "would rather cry on a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" are all assholes for marriage. As a husband, your first responsibility is to "maintain stability". Stability is the most important political task of a family. No woman can live with you until the day when you are full of western food and hungry for porridge.
How to be a perfect husband: Therefore, a "perfect" husband needs to be down-to-earth. He must be able to handle everything, know what can be done and what cannot be done In short, you must stand firm at any time.