One of my six year old girlfriends raped me. She said that my daily life was very comfortable and relaxed. I ate, drank, raised flowers and plants. It was meaningless and boring to show off. We should find a husband to have a child like her and live a low-key life. That's what I meant. I understated it a little. She was a little indignant. I said that you didn't see my hard work, and I didn't want to make things unhappy. Finally she pulled me black. Suddenly I remembered an article to share with you!
1. My friend Li Liangcheng is hardworking, kind-hearted, harmonious and often helpful.
Liangcheng has a distant relative in the countryside, and his family is not very good. Liangcheng takes over the children who have just entered primary school from their relatives and subsidizes the children to go to school. The children also work hard and study late every day. Concerned that the child was too tired, Liangcheng often advised the child to have an early rest.
A few days ago, the teacher called Liang Cheng and asked him some strange questions. His eyes were strange and he was a bit hesitant.
Good intentions are rough, not thinking too much.
Two days later, Liang Cheng checked his homework for the child. He accidentally saw a composition of the child, and was shocked.
There are several sentences in the composition, which roughly means:... Why is this society so unfair? Why do some people eat spicy food without doing anything all day long? For example, my uncle Li Liangcheng, his family, apart from watching TV and shopping every day, always have endless money? Rich people are good. They can buy whatever they want
Liang Cheng was very excited at that time. He wanted to pull the child over and yelled at the child's ear: "Your mother, your dead child, what is your uncle's family doing nothing all day long?"? It's your parents who do nothing all day long! It is because your parents don't do anything all day long that they mix up the day like this! Your uncle is afraid of delaying you. You are almost tired. You can't see
Finally, I understand why the teacher's eyes are so strange.
Liangcheng finally could not say anything to the child. He was afraid of hurting the child. He talked about it with me, and I was shocked.
What I can't imagine is that this abnormal state of mind has quietly invaded the hearts of children.
2. When I was in Shenzhen, I had a deep experience of the extreme nature of people's hearts. Once when I went out and saw two security guards chatting, I heard one security guard say: Look at our community, there are all kinds of good cars to drive. All his mother people are rich!
There is no logical relationship between driving a good car and being rich. I don't know how the security guard connects the two. Before I could sort out his logic, I heard another security guard say that it was too his mother unfair to die poor and die rich. Watch the little video at 8 o'clock every night! I am looking forward to a campaign now. I will be the first to sign up. If I don't kill these rich people, I will call them father!
The security guard who spoke behind, his face muscles were twisted, and his young eyes reflected hatred that I could not understand. This hatred is completely illogical, and fiction is based on distortion and imagination.
3. Another thing is that I have a friend whose son is very promising. His parents didn't care much about it. The child applied for and was admitted to famous overseas schools. The friend was so excited that he called all his acquaintances to celebrate.
In the midst of excitement, an old friend of many years suddenly threw out a cold sentence: foreign schools don't look at the test scores at all, just give money, rich people are good! Go to school wherever you want.
My friend was flustered by the traffic jam and angrily explained: You said that was the pheasant university. My son is a famous school. The enrollment of famous schools is more strict... My son is a full scholarship!
The other party threw back a sentence: It's the same. Give me the money.
Go to your mother... my friend is so angry that he wants to beat others. But I know that my son's performance is too good, which has caused public anger. What I can do is to get up and pay the bill immediately and leave. This is the end of my old friendship.
4. The above things have a common feature. They are all fabricating hatred and even revising the facts.
Li Liangcheng is not a local tyrant. He really becomes a dog every day. Since he took his relatives' children, he has sentenced himself to several years of hard labor. It never occurred to me that the child was ungrateful at all. The reason why he insisted that he would "do nothing all day long" was just to create an excuse for injustice and establish a basis for his own anger.
Now Li Liangcheng is helpless with the child's education. He has received it and cannot send it back. How can he tell the child that this idea is distorted? I'm afraid it's not an easy thing. It will have a negative effect if it's not done well.
I don't know how many bad local tyrants are in that neighborhood in Shenzhen. But I know several of them who sleep later than dogs and are as tired as donkeys. One of the bosses was poured into the stomach by the customer to vomit blood in order to receive the order. There was also a fat tycoon who was chased by creditors at the lowest point. He was desperate. He jumped over the wall more than two meters high with a whoosh
If they knew that someone hated them so much, they would cry.
Finally, the friend of that son from a famous school in Shanghai is really wrong. Your son is so promising that it means he is unjustifiably humiliated to other children. Just close the door and celebrate with a few close friends. You have to tell the world that others are depressed and angry. Of course, you have to be repaired.
This is just the reason for the repair, ignoring the fact, which is too distorted.
5. When I returned to Shenzhen last year, I visited some friends of that year. One of them is my sister who took care of me. When she graduated from graduate school, she went directly to the provincial government, but her boyfriend went to Shenzhen to work hard, which caused her blood to boil, so she resolutely resigned and left to stage a love story in Shenzhen.
Unexpectedly, she went to Shenzhen, but her boyfriend couldn't get a foothold because of a series of frustrations, and finally returned to the third-tier small cities, so that her family could make a career. However, she stayed in Shenzhen, started at the bottom of the valley and finally became a famous female entrepreneur.
Last time we met, she told me about the boss of Northern Coal.
She said that the media always called the coal boss coal boss, a derogatory term that gave people a strong feeling that these coal bosses were upstarts with no background. They had no conscience except to use money to smash people, bully the good and bully the good. She thought the same at that time, and felt the same way when she saw the coal boss.
But she felt unreliable. After talking for several times, she found that there was a psychological master who knew the world like a human heart hidden under the crude disguise of the coal boss.
In the coal boss's bag, there are several vulgar magazines of three-point women on the top, and there are monographs on psychology in the original English version hidden below. After reading these books, she suddenly realized: Yes, the coal boss who is full of swearing words is in charge of tens of thousands of people. How can it be possible without some internal skills? The reason why he behaves rudely is that some people in his environment only eat this kind of food, and the second reason is that the society recognizes that they are uneducated. Why does he have to compete with everyone?
The elder sister said with deep feeling at that time: people are not afraid of not working hard. Not working hard is also the right of life. Why should we work hard? To be a mediocre person, who will provoke who? I am afraid that I will not work hard, distort and make assumptions, and depreciate others' efforts for no reason.
The world doesn't owe you or anyone!
You can only see that the coal bosses are throwing a lot of money and think they have taken advantage of the policy, but you can't see that they must go to the lecture hall and go to the mine to complete a systematic project of coal mining, and command a large number of troops and become local ruffians. You only see other people's small waist, but you don't see beautiful women sweating in the gym day and night. You can only see that others are in a good mood when shopping, but you can't see that they are working hard and busy.
Not working hard is not wrong. Not working hard is cynical, so the brain becomes increasingly distorted. People who have made achievements are either lucky or have a bad character. They are either flattering or rich. You are the kindest person in the world. Everyone owes you, and everyone should not enjoy their life. They must accept your justice.
If you hate the efforts of others, you will deliberately ignore the efforts of others and make excuses for your own efforts, which is more or less human nature - but deliberately deceive yourself, imagine yourself as a victim of injustice, and then let yourself live in a state of grief and indignation, which is torture yourself.
Don't be so angry. The world really doesn't owe anyone. Everyone who is above you in economic status has a worse pay than you. They didn't steal anything from you. Your gain is only proportional to your wisdom. It's really not someone else's fault.
Please tell other friends! Don't be so angry, the world really doesn't owe anyone!