Post Date August, 26 2023
These three years of sexual experience have been disharmonious. Mr. Sun said that his regulations on sex are extreme. He doesn't expect his sexual life to be tough enough or his wife not climaxing. Secondly, having work experience with unexpected pregnancies has caused great pain for his wife, which has always made him feel guilty! Thirdly, the shadow of an unexpected pregnancy caused him to be cut off every time he climaxed.
Therefore, during sexual intercourse, he is unable to reach orgasm. Overall, he finds sexual activity uninteresting and unwilling to do it. In the long run, he treats his wife well and treats her as his own sister. My wife said that in recent years, he has hardly touched me. Sometimes I can want to have sex, but he will reject me for many reasons, which makes me feel very frustrated. Sometimes when I call or write messages to them, he either doesn't answer or annoys me, and in the end, I basically don't want to communicate with him anymore. Because I will directly say 'excuse' to Mr. Sun. You don't have sex because your men's sexual function has arisen. You cannot allow yourself to have shortcomings and intentionally impose this obligation on your daughter-in-law.
Perhaps you think these three excuses can scare people, but you must admit that you are really not good. Everyone has flaws, which naturally include sexual experiences between spouses or loved ones. Accepting their original appearance is unlikely to be completely perfect. Sexual love is something we must accept, and even those who are not very good may not understand it. Is the daughter-in-law checking attendance because Mr. Sun doesn't need to say where he went? A man who is afraid of his wife; Mrs. Guo is unwilling to tell the old man during communication that she wants him to experience the pain of not being accused, doubt her work experience, and spy on each other. This situation is not easy to make things stronger, but the distance between the two people is getting farther and farther.
Behind the untrustworthy, there is actually a lack of security towards oneself, and behind the insecure, there is actually no confidence. Mr. Sun said that he has been introverted since childhood, not confident, and dislikes getting too close to others, but he has to get along with everyone in his work. After returning home, he was already very tired. I see that my daughter-in-law has a good personality and I don't know where to go after work at night. I am very angry in my heart and unwilling to tolerate it in front of my daughter-in-law. I decisively close myself up and punish my wife by not having sex, interacting, or communicating. Mrs. Guo said that although she is very popular outside and at work, she lacks confidence in front of her husband, fearing that she may not be good enough and her figure may not be good enough, and other women may have won over her. So she decided to strive for more key performance in her work, to make her leaders like her more, and then develop the illusion that she doesn't really care about her husband, which is not easy to lose.
Emotions are like football, emphasizing the exam results of team sports, and either party will lose. I advise them to learn to let go of their inner constraints, to be honest with each other, and to speak up bravely. They are willing to seek counseling and treatment. Trust is the beginning of all obstacles, and being outspoken is the key, and none is lacking. Finally, I made it a rule for them to see each other and say, 'I can let go of your hand and let you do what you want, because I will trust you and love me like you.' Then the eyes of the daughter-in-law were filled with tears. My husband slowly said, I can love you, you can rest assured, and then I will love you, everyone promised not to destroy each other. The husband gently held the hand of his daughter-in-law and kissed her on the forehead. I held back the tears that were about to fall, hoping that they could share the course on marriage relationships next week according to my assigned homework. Leaving the diagnosis room, my mood at this moment is as warm as the afternoon sunshine.
