Sexual Health
You must know that sex cannot be regarded as pure dedication or the correct concept of sex
Post Date May, 13 2023
On the surface, it seems that wives are only passive recipients in sexual life, and many people believe that women do not have sexual attitudes. After all, this sexual error often hides in undiscovered places, but in reality, it quietly erodes marital life.
Secondly, due to the rich and diverse patterns of female sexual reactions and behavior, as well as significant personal differences, misconceptions about sexuality are often concealed.
Due to the general tendency of women to closely integrate sexual life, love, and marital quality, wives tend to consider more factors of love and marriage when evaluating sexual life, but ignore or negate the role of sexual concepts. There are three common misconceptions about sexuality among women.
Treating sexual life as a simple sacrifice
This first manifests as a lack of sufficient understanding and understanding of one's physiological structure, sexual function, and sexual response. With the popularization of family planning and women's health work, wives have more and more knowledge about contraception, pregnancy, and women's diseases. However, due to traditional and customary limitations, more than half of wives do not know what the most sensitive sexual parts of women are, and 40% of wives do not know or do not know what the symptoms of a woman's orgasm are.
Is this because sexual knowledge is difficult to obtain? I'm afraid not. There are over 200 publicly published books on sexuality in China, and almost all headquarters have discussed these common knowledge. However, there are fewer female readers and fewer female buyers, and there are particularly few women who spread such knowledge.
Why is it necessary but not learning? One of the main reasons is that many wives believe that since their husband dominates sexual life, they should learn sexual knowledge. He is responsible for the harmony of sexual life, and even only he strives to satisfy himself. After all, wives often engage in sexual activity by following the rules of 'marrying a chicken with a chicken' and 'marrying a dog with a dog'. Since I have fulfilled my obligation of 'dedication', he should take on the responsibility of promoting harmony.
This simple concept of 'dedication' towards sex will bring several negative consequences:
l. When encountering a husband who is rough or even sexually abusive, the wife lacks both the inner motivation to resist and the knowledge and methods to promote change.
2. When sexual life is generally disharmonious, wives tend to blame their husbands, which exacerbates conflicts. Among the husbands who suspect Yangkang's premature ejaculation, a considerable number of people are actually aggravated by their wives' responsibilities.
