I thought as long as I opened one eye and closed one eye, I could keep this marriage. But things didn't go as I hoped.
Xiao San has been with her husband for almost four years, and she has a nine year old son with her ex husband. Xiao San got divorced through infidelity, not because my husband divorced. Previously, Xiao San divorced a lawyer, but he didn't marry a lawyer.
Now my husband is asking me to divorce and live with my mistress. What should I do?
Ms. Chen:
How is your relationship with your husband? Why would you tolerate your husband cheating for four years? Did you know about them before? Did you not express your attitude, but rather acquiesce in their relationship? I don't know how you communicate with your husband on a regular basis? Have you had any in-depth communication on the issue of Xiao San? Why did he cheat and what were his dissatisfaction with his marriage? You need to understand all of this.
Only by clarifying the problem can we find a solution to it. At present, it seems that you still have expectations for this marriage and do not want it to end. Your husband's attitude is not yet clear. Although he proposes a divorce, the man's thoughts will also change, and further communication and understanding are needed. If you are sure you want to keep your marriage, the top priority is to separate your mistress. This is not an easy task, you missed the best opportunity (when he and the third child just developed), but as long as you have the determination, our marriage experts can help you.