Post Date April, 15 2023
Nowadays, women tend to engage in sexual activity as long as they spend a little longer in a romantic relationship! Of course, modern people are no strangers to sex, and sexual behavior is also very familiar to us. Sexual life is one of the good ways for men and women to enhance their relationship with each other. It can effectively promote the feelings of both men and women, so that they can understand each other better. But premarital sex is still bad for a wide range of women!
1. Victims
Most of the initiators of premarital sex are men and the direct victims are women. Women who have premarital sex are not only under the pressure of public opinion, but also under the attack of men's spirit. When the man becomes aware that the woman has such problems, the romantic relationship is often immediately terminated or the marital relationship seriously deteriorates. This is the main theory that many young men and women oppose premarital sex.
2. Affects interpersonal relationships
Relaxation in sexual behavior often leads to a hasty attitude towards marriage, with some marital relationships being replaced by 'bare water couples', which can hide crises even after marriage. If some couples suspect each other of having an affair due to premarital sex after marriage; Some also engage in sexual activity before marriage, and their bad habits remain unchanged after marriage, leading to the breakdown of their families.
3. Causing psychological pressure on the female partner
The woman often feels various pressures and accusations and develops a sense of inferiority. If she marries a man who had sexual intercourse before marriage, her psychological state will gradually calm over time; If abandoned after pregnancy, it can have a significant impact on her life, leaving an indelible cloud and trauma in her heart. She may develop hostility towards men and choose celibacy; Or change one's own moral and values and "break the can and fall"; Or escape reality by committing suicide; Or hastily marry someone else to cover up.
4. Bringing problems to fertility
Some cases of lifelong infertility caused by multiple miscarriages are prone to obstetric complications even in the future. Some children born out of wedlock because of premarital sex are discriminated against by the society, which also brings heavy burdens to the society. But this is the result of not using contraceptives, and has no direct relationship with premarital sex.
5. Inability to coordinate sexual relationships
Many facts have proven that cohabitants before marriage have not shown superiority in family life. Premarital cohabitation often only involves sexual relationships without economic or other aspects, so this relationship is not stable and can also undergo another extreme change.
The original relationship of equal and free choice between the two parties in love was disrupted by premarital sex, and the man believed that the woman could no longer be separated from him, so he freely controlled his attitude towards him. On the contrary, the woman, due to her commitment to the other party, is afraid or worried about the man's change of heart, so she repeatedly accepts and tolerates him. Even if the man has significant shortcomings, she has to make do and get married. Some people even get married because of pregnancy, not because of their true love. After marriage, tragedy inevitably occurs.
