Post Date April, 15 2023
Tolerance is necessary in the relationship between couples, as no one is perfect. Therefore, only by giving more understanding and tolerance to one's partner can we get along more harmoniously. When necessary, tolerating the other person not only gives oneself a step to break free from the dilemma of being torn apart, but also allows the lover to reflect on their mistakes in a grateful state of mind. Women usually have a "reasonable but not forgiving" attitude, so when saving love, we usually suggest that women must be more tolerant of each other. However, if "tolerating too much" is also effective in saving love over time?
Obviously, the answer is no. No matter what we do, we uphold the principle of "moderation", and women's tolerance towards each other when saving love is the same. To be tolerant, but it is not to tolerate without principles, nor is it to tolerate without limits. Tolerance must have limits. It's like eating. Once you're full, don't overeat again, otherwise you'll feel uncomfortable. So, when women save love, they often tolerate it. What negative effects will happen over time? What should women do?
The status was getting lower and lower, and he couldn't hold his head up in front of him. Love is mutual, you think you still have feelings for him, and it's right to want to save the previous relationship; You feel that you were too harsh on the other person before, and after reflection, you feel that you should be tolerant of them, which is also right. But if you are too tolerant of him, it is likely to lead him to pay less and less attention to you, because human nature is inherently like this, and easily obtained things will be taken for granted and not valued. Getting along with two people requires emotional maintenance. When you blindly tolerate each other, they may find it enjoyable in a short period of time, but over time, your lowliness will only slowly wear away the last bit of love they have for you. When a man has no love for you, you cannot bring him back. Even if you do, you may not be able to treat you well.
So as a woman, even if she once owed that man a debt and wanted to compensate him well and save your love, she must always have her own bottom line, be a principled woman, and have limited tolerance towards the other party. At this point, you need to change yourself. Why change oneself? Because in this relationship, the other party is the person who knows you the most. If you don't make a change, you will still be the person in their heart who repeatedly disappoints them. To whitewash the bad impression you have in the other person's mind, you must make changes, become better, become excellent enough, and become able to re attract the other person. This is the correct way to salvage. Even if you cannot save love, you still have more choices, but once you lose your dignity and status, it is difficult to truly achieve happiness. Don't think about how to keep him or "pull" him back, you should think about how to keep his gaze fixed on you and make him willingly return to your side, which requires you to constantly improve your charm.
Although rescuing love is not a very simple thing, women don't have to think too complex, especially if they keep their posture low. When being tolerant of others, they must adhere to the principle of "moderation", so that the love you save will truly belong to you!
