Everyone's social circle is composed of the opposite sex and the same sex. For women, a good same-sex relationship is a best friend, and a good opposite sex relationship is a blue faced confidant. However, the relationship between Blue Beauty's confidante is somewhat too complex and can even become a hidden danger of infidelity. Therefore, most women reject their blue confidants and list them as a "species" that "corrupts" them. Can't Blue Yan's confidant really be taken? The fact is not so, it mainly depends on how to coordinate this intimate and pure relationship with each other.
Blue confidant is a woman's "trash can"
A blue confidant is a man who is below his husband and boyfriend, and above other male friends. Women can tell this man about any topics they cannot talk to their husband or boyfriend about, or they can cry about the grievances he has suffered. As a confidant, he will pity you, speak for you from your perspective, give you a warm embrace when you are hurt, and give you a hug that you think is without any desire.
Blue confidant is a small reliance in women's hearts
A blue confidant is a man who truly understands women's psychology and emotions. He does not always worry about every happiness, anger, or sadness of a woman, but will feel heartache for every drop of her tears when he meets her, and will be pleased with every smile she smiles. He is the person who first remembers a woman when she is hurt or wronged. A woman always has many things she cannot tell the man around her or her closest girlfriend, so she is looking for a man who can care for her and love her without causing her to suffer and want to love or hate.
Women should not regard their blue confidants as love
If a woman wants to tie the heart of a blue faced confidant for a lifetime, the only way to do so is to prevent the other party from getting her body, and to keep her position in his heart unchanged. Only by giving will there be rewards, and your care will naturally receive the other party's care. If there is no meticulous care, how can a man be willing to be your lifelong confidant? To be cared for and loved by others meticulously, only you can first tell them the secrets and grievances in your heart.
People are all mutual, and love does not always come with rewards, but friendship always comes with rewards. We all have friends to some extent, but there will definitely be a male friend who will always be close to us or live in our hearts. No one should escape, nor should they think they are in love with each other. It's not love, it's just dependence. When you start to rely on someone, they naturally have a charm that makes you sincerely convinced. You should be careful not to fall into it.
Why did Blue Beauty's confidant become the object of infidelity
Blue face confidants are the ones who are most likely to make women cheat. There are very few who can truly be the closest confidants of men and women in their lives, and it depends on how men and women control themselves. When it comes to control, it's about confidants. The degree of interaction needs to be measured clearly. Women should understand the difference between confidants and lovers. A confidant can speak their heart, but they cannot warm each other. The only way for confidants to warm themselves is through the warmth of their hearts, and they cannot turn into the warmth of their bodies. Once they become the warmth of their bodies, confidants will face two consequences: either losing or upgrading to become lovers. But having a lover who knows you very well is such a dangerous thing! But once you lose your confidant, you will suffer even more than losing your lover.
Women, it is important to consider whether to make them your blue confidant or your lover. Once they are positioned, they must control their own degree. Don't believe any man who says, 'I tell you everything because you are my confidant'. A man's attempt to tell a woman that she is his confidant is actually very obvious. A woman's heart is most easily moved by the word 'confidant'. Her small vanity may feel that she can occupy such a large position in a man's heart, and he believes in her so much. Because she is moved, she will double the reward. Perhaps accidentally, she will involve the entire person. When facing a man who takes the initiative to say he is his confidant, remember to carefully observe and never be fooled by vanity. Don't let the man play games that he has played thousands of times and still enjoys it tirelessly.
Fake blue confidants must avoid them
For men who wear the banner of "confidant" but speak ambiguous words, women must avoid them, as they are very dangerous men. Because of lack of sincerity, feelings with deceitful qualities are neither love nor friendship. A woman says to a man, 'You are my confidant.' That's with a grateful attitude. In general, when saying this, women are often emotionally fragile. Women like to express their true feelings, and even those with deep connections will not use the identity of confidants to approach men. Women should understand that men do not take their confidants for granted, as they generally only want to cherish each other for a lifetime and feel that kind of ambiguity, If one truly gains the heart and body of a confidant, they will no longer have the initial palpitations.