Post Date April, 15 2023
Girls may wonder that in love, men sometimes act shy, and sometimes even dare not speak, let alone look a girl in the eye. So, is this shyness of boys a good thing or a bad thing? Let's take a look at how experts explain it.
Perhaps you have noticed a phenomenon in life where men are more shy than women when a pair of lovers are suddenly exposed in public. "Whether at a wedding ceremony or when visiting relatives or friends in the future, newly married couples often show a lack of interest from the male, while the female is generous.". If there are many women around in the above situation, then the shyness of men will be even more severe, which has some secrets.
Men's shyness often occurs in front of everyone, especially women. This is because men often get rid of themselves and observe themselves from the outside. In other words, what they often consider is: What will others think of me? What would she think of me. Women tend to enter the self centered emotional world more easily, revel in it, and be able to forget their surroundings when they are happy or sad.
For example, when a husband walks with a pregnant wife in the park, the wife often has a proud expression on her face, holding her stomach open as if boasting to others that she is about to become a true mother. Her joy is directly expressed without disguise. Men who are husbands, on the other hand, are embarrassed when others intentionally or unintentionally glance at them, because he suspects that those people will think their wife's big belly is not beautiful and that it is their own fault. Men's joy is replaced by this worry, which manifests itself as inexplicably "embarrassed.".
The reason why men tend to be shy in front of women is that they strive to make women feel good about themselves, at least not to be looked down upon by them. Therefore, when women pay attention to them, they will panic and think they have something to laugh at, so they can't help but show their shame. Leaders who understand the nature of men sometimes intentionally insert several women into a group of men when assigning work, so that men can do much better than before. This may also be considered a leadership art.
There is also a phenomenon that some young men feel flushed and heartbeats when they want to express their hidden love to a girl, but they are embarrassed to say it when it comes to their lips. Why is this happening? One of the important reasons is that they are worried: "In case she refuses..." At this moment, the young man unavoidably reviews the process of their contact. If the answer is positive and affirmative, it indicates that the time is approaching maturity and should not hesitate to express their wishes to the girl directly or indirectly.
As long as a man's shyness is moderate, it is not only a shortcoming, but can also reflect his "depth" and "charm." However, in most situations, it should be displayed in an elegant manner to show a man's full confidence.
