Sexual Health
Why is the sexual life of couples not harmonious? It may be caused by these several factors
Sexual disharmony not only affects the pleasure of sexual life and intimate relationships between men and women, but also leads to sexual dysfunction of one or both partners, and even crises in marital life. The following are some common phenomena to analyze the common causes of sexual imbalance, which can help resolve conflicts in sexual life and achieve harmony and perfection in marital sexual life.
He became a beast due to his weakness.
He admits to being like a fierce beast in bed, or shouting or moaning like a beast during sex. For him, even a gentle caress is a kiss for you, and what you want is gentleness, gentleness
At this point, the wife should not just think that this may be his rough temperament. In fact, in real life, this situation is more common in some men with self-evaluation problems, which means they have a sense of inferiority.
He doesn't feel how powerful he is. When they are despised and looked down upon by stronger and more domineering female companions, these men subconsciously develop a mentality of retaliation, defamation, and insult towards each other, seemingly liberating themselves from the feeling of inferiority. So it is more appropriate to use the word 'from outside to inside' to express their inner state.
There are four types of women that men are most afraid of: one is aggressive and domineering; Secondly, women with high cultural literacy or educational level; The third type is women with exceptionally strong bodies; Fourthly, women who are particularly good-looking. Men are easily ashamed and afraid when they encounter these women. When dealing with these women, they often need to be brave.
You should tell your wife that your relationship is facing crisis. Perhaps your husband loves you very much, but at the same time, he feels uncomfortable. If this tendency is not corrected in a timely manner, it may ultimately lead to marital tragedy. Suggest the wife to readjust her extramarital relationship with her husband to help him overcome his inferiority complex and build confidence.
Even if you are a very beautiful and accomplished woman, and he is a plain looking man with no glory in his career, as long as you still love him and cherish your marriage relationship, you should do everything possible to discover all his strengths and truly appreciate him. Maybe he plays the piano well, or plays the accordion beautifully, or he can do it well at home... You tell him that he is much better than you and others in this respect.
He's just a 'sex slug'
He is a complete lazy person in terms of sex, and in sexual intimacy, he seems to want to do nothing but make love. So every time he has sex, he always says to you, 'Let's caress ourselves and do whatever we like!'!
This type of man suffers from 'sexual laziness syndrome'. They believe that sex is sexual organ contact, and caressing seems unnecessary. They seem to feel that in sexual intimacy, men's hands are only used to support their bodies and do nothing else. Perhaps he still thinks that women can do well in this area, so let women grasp it. In this way, she was satisfied, and he could even obtain the happiness he deserved without any difficulty.
Sex should always be a form of taking and giving. Tell him that sexual laziness is actually a cold, negative, and irresponsible way of sex, and he will certainly not receive true and maximum satisfaction and happiness. At the same time, tell him your expectations, the most sensitive parts of your body, and how to caress you to make you more excited. At this point, the vast majority of men are not willing to be "incompetent" in terms of sex. They will soon learn the kind of caregiving you expect and become a dedicated and capable man.