Post Date April, 15 2023
Based on the different living conditions of each couple, their emotional types are also different. However, ordinary couples will not allow extramarital love, but some special couples have regarded cheating as a "hidden rule". The specific meaning is that the husband and wife find their own lovers respectively, and both parties do not interfere with each other, but also do not divorce. Such a "harmonious" way of marriage is really annoying. So why does this happen?
Differences in interests and hobbies
Couple life needs feelings as the basis, but feelings cannot represent everything. Many couples with good feelings will also have extramarital love, which is caused by two reasons: first, the material needs cannot be met; 2、 The interests of the couple are not compatible.
There is no need to explain the material needs. It is worth exploring the interests and hobbies. To take an inappropriate example, vegetarianism and carnivarianism will definitely lead to war. Based on emotional factors, both parties may tolerate or indulge each other's behavior, which will lead to the phenomenon of one party crossing the border.
When a lover cannot become a confidant, or even have a congenial exchange of interest, then one party will seek comfort from the unexpected opposite sex of the couple. This kind of comfort will escalate as people get along, and extramarital love will come into being.
Marriage makes couples cheat
Couples can't just find a man and a woman. It needs a deep emotional foundation as a cushion, and can only be combined after it has developed into a degree of mutual compatibility. However, commercial marriage completely violates the original intention of marriage and makes it become a tool of interest.
The most common evil result of commercial marriage is extramarital love. Most of the time, it is for the man to cheat, because the man's rebellious heart is very strong, but there are many women who "go out of the wall" first. Both of these situations will lead to the victimization of one party. Even so, the marriage has become a foregone conclusion, and the pain can only be borne by oneself.
There is also an ideal kind of extramarital love caused by commercial marriage, that is, the couple have both extramarital love. The form of expression is very simple. You look for your lover and I look for my partner. So dependent, the home is only a decoration, and the lover is his own ownership. This kind of emotion should be called "dislocation love". The person who loves becomes the lover, but the person who doesn't love is the main room. Such absurd and painful things make people suffer.
