A married man once told a reporter: To get to know Shenzhen men, you have to appear in the night of Shenzhen; To understand the married men in Shenzhen, you need to appear in the darkness of Shenzhen.
At 9:30 pm on July 3rd, the reporter accompanied his good friend Zhang Kunming (pseudonym) to Baden Street in Shenzhen, known as "Beijing Sanlitun", and walked into the authentic bar. This bar has been renovated recently, and in the performance bar in the lobby, three-quarters of the seats are already full, and there are not many seats left in the bar.
When we reached the fourth floor, we immediately felt an atmosphere filled with alcohol and mysterious language. At 10:30, there were more and more people in the bar. The reporter roughly observed that the majority of men came here, with a male to female ratio of about 3-1. In addition, there are many men who are good-looking and "suspected" white-collar and gold collar, with a considerable proportion appearing to be over 30 years old last year.
This bar is a place that all men in Shenzhen know, "said Zhang Kunming. Zhang is a law enforcement officer from Buji Town, who has known reporters for many years and is currently divorcing his wife. He knew the purpose of the reporter's interview here, so he cooperated and expressed his opinions on this topic, "Shenzhen men are tired when they work, and they are also tired when they return home.
It is well known that Japanese men are very indulgent in their nightlife because they face high work pressure. Isn't it true that Shenzhen men are like this? But the difference is that in a patriarchal society like Japan, wives tend to be submissive, at least accepting their husbands. Home is a harbor. Can you make your wives understand your pressure and distress in Shenzhen? It's just a dream! She will definitely turn her home into a battlefield
In China, the nightlife of Shenzhen people is already well-known. The reporter has visited many bars in Beijing, and it should be said that the atmosphere of Shenzhen bars is not as good as that of Beijing, but the scene of overcrowding is unparalleled.
Like Baden Street, like the sea world, like the Casablanca of Zhenxing Road; There are also various KTVs and restaurants of various grades, accommodating various people with the purpose of killing time and using relaxation as an excuse.
Recently, reporters have been interested in interviewing some married men, and over 80% of them have stated that they can go home on time for up to two or three days in a week. When asked about the topic of 'why don't you like going home', some people say that work pressure is so high that coming home immediately after work doesn't suffocate me?
Some say that the best way to avoid arguing with your wife is not to go home; Some say that Shenzhen men are not fools, nor are they bored. If they don't go home, they will definitely have their own troubles; Some people say that there is actually no need for a reason not to go home. This question is both simple and complex, and there is no need to find a reason. The more you search, the more tiring it becomes, and it is also easy to be misunderstood by women.