Why does a boyfriend have thoughts about other women? What is the best that cannot be obtained

What is the best that cannot be obtained? The interpretation of men's psychology tells you the answer. The interpretation of men's psychology delves into the essence of men, allowing you to understand their hearts.

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Men often have the common problem of pursuing excellence, novelty, and a new opposite sex. Food and sex are inherent in human nature, and both men and women have such a nature. Therefore, it is not difficult to understand that men have such a common disease, but it is just the complex in their hearts that causes it. They feel less and less about their girlfriend, but their interest in traveling with others is becoming stronger, which is also their psychological factor at play.

Why do men like other people's girlfriends and have no feelings for their own?

One is the difference in perspective.

Currently, more and more men are becoming less interested in their loved ones and more interested in their wives. What is the reason for this? This is mainly caused by psychological factors. For other people's wives, men often feel a sense of novelty, as distance produces beauty.

The second is the mentality of seeking novelty and diversity.

In fact, this is only a matter of foresight and close-up. What you see is someone else's wife with advantages, and in her husband's opinion, there are also many disadvantages. Many marriages have no regrets, but what's missing is that you don't have the mentality and eyes to appreciate marriage. For your wife, you need to discover and amplify her beauty even more. Didn't someone say that life does not lack beauty, what is missing is discovery.

The third is the existence of incentives.

My own wife, after a long time, has lost her freshness. Time has passed, and passion has also been diluted by time. And others' wives always feel fresh because they haven't received it. There is always infinite imagination, and every possible detail brings infinite passion. This kind of psychology of seeking novelty and experiencing different feelings is the reason why most men dream of a wife.

The fourth is to conquer psychology.

Many things are not innate, but have triggering factors. Just like man A, his wife's rejection of normal girls is not because of how unattractive the girls are, nor because they have been hurt by some girls. But before realizing how cute a girl is, he realized the physical and mental pleasure that a wife brings to him. The initial shock made him believe that it was the best, most wonderful, and most joyful for himself. This feeling became a poison for him to resist girls of the same age.

The fifth is to stimulate a sense of achievement.

It is a conquest to win the heart of those wives who are so good at what they think of themselves. Placing a wife who is excellent and even very proud in one's own eyes is even more of a conquest. This desire to conquer is a unique domineering trait of men, and it is also a manifestation of self affirmation and stimulation of self-confidence and passion. People with this mentality often want to get what they are unlikely to get, and the less they can get, the more they insist on getting it.

Is it the best that cannot be obtained

Yesterday, you were sitting in the classroom with review books piled up to the ceiling. You told yourself that you must go to a prestigious university.

Yesterday, you always intentionally or unintentionally passed by the classroom next door, occasionally looking at the beautiful face inside. You tell yourself that he is the right person.

Yesterday, you were playing with your Nokia and suddenly realized that the new Apple had been released again. You told yourself to go home and tell your dad that you must buy it.

In fact, you don't know what a prestigious university really means, you don't even know what it is for to attend university. You didn't even say a few words to that handsome boy's hand in the end. What do you do with your phone, just to make phone calls and send messages? You don't even have access to Apple's powerful features.

At that time, we were all like this. In high school, I was green and innocent, thinking that studying hard would definitely bring me the best, and thinking that what I dream of is the best. Attend prestigious schools, be able to spend time with people you like, and get the toys you dream of.

We always say that we were young and immature at that time. However, have you ever thought that, in fact, now you, the so-called maturity, are still defeated by the subconscious. Are you always envious and fond of people who cannot be obtained, things that cannot be obtained, confessions that have not been made in time, and so on.

Xiao Qi is a pen pal of mine who suddenly sent me a message saying that he had sent an email. Upon opening it, a piece of paper with thousands of words spread freely, roughly meaning that the boy she liked didn't like her, and she couldn't let herself go no matter what. At this time, her exam results were always inferior to those of her peers. Although she had good calligraphy, she was very angry about why her math was so poor. The little girl, then, was venting again why her family was not awesome. Such complaints were full of thousands of words.

Actually, I had no intention of replying. She was just looking for someone to vent. However, upon closer examination, my past self is not the same as Xiao Qi now. I always think that what I can't get is the best, and the less I can get, the more I want to get. Nowadays, he can send greetings from time to time around him, and he can study with peace of mind. In his spare time, he can write small words, publish them, or use them as a broadcast manuscript. Life is always fulfilling and happy. Isn't it more fulfilling to be based on the present?

It's funny to think about it, people always do. Mom said, 'What others have in their bowls is always fragrant.'. A vulgar sentence said everything.

Are you still struggling, feeling depressed, and worried. Just, in the moment when you frown tightly, have you ever thought about whether someone loves you, has something to do, and dreams. In fact, life is so simple, but it's just holding onto your hand tightly, warming yourself, them, your loved ones, loved ones, friends, classmates, and so on.