Post Date May, 17 2023
Wishing to love someone for a lifetime is a beautiful wish in every woman's heart, but the probability of truly realizing this agreement in life is very smooth. There is no record of extramarital affairs, no divorce, or death in the opposite direction. Conclusion: In real life, women, whether they like it or not, will inevitably bid farewell to love and become human. Like collecting jewelry, women hide their old lovers in black boxes of memory. Many unintentionally, they will jump into their minds again, bringing sad skies and clouds. Compared to men, women prefer nostalgia, and all lovers are like familiar songs. When people leave, tea cools, and memories linger on.
In the eyes of women, every man they once had is so different. In the eyes of different men, they have become different women. A few loves is equivalent to several lives. The woman's heart grows old like this. Time and space alternate, men stop. A woman who falls into memory is like opening a Jewel Box in her memory. Many people believe that the plot they have forgotten has surfaced, and their emotions seem to instantly return to a certain scene in their memory. At this point, the memory becomes a filter, and all unpleasant details are diluted, highlighting the scenes where couples can take greeting card photos. At this point, women can't help but look for a phone book... Be careful, this may not be a good idea. Before seeing them again, it's best to ask yourself what you want from this reunion. Why do women always think of their old lovers? A man can stand out from many people and become our lover. He has different qualities.
He once loved us, whether his way was skillful or clumsy, his smile was honest or perfunctory, and he put his heart into us. We are familiar with his voice, his scent, no matter how love ends, no matter how sad he used to be, he is different from passersby. This is enough to make a woman remember him for a lifetime. Women are usually emotional. The image of a man who loves her in her heart will not change, he will not grow old, nor will he change. So, when things don't go smoothly in real-life relationships, women always miss their old lovers.
Why do women want to meet their old lovers? Japanese private detective agencies provide services for finding first love partners, with 90% of customers being women. It can be seen that women are far more concerned about their old lovers than men. Why are women worried about their old lovers? Why do you want to call them? One of the reasons: I accidentally thought of him and his phone number was easy to find. 29 year old Anlin returned to her hometown town due to official duties and passed through the entrance of her alma mater's high school. The familiar scenery and smell reminded her of her high school years and her first boyfriend. The simple love of the old days aroused her infinite emotions. In order to yearn for the beautiful past and hope to know that the previous lover had no safe curiosity, she obtained the boy's phone number from her mother and called him. They eat together and reminisce about the beautiful past together.
Advantages: Satisfy one's curiosity and vanity. Because he still remembers the past many years ago. Disadvantage: This kind of meeting once again is enough, do not abuse it. Otherwise, even beautiful memories cannot be maintained. In fact, everyone knows that everything from the past will never come back. The second reason is because he said that if you are willing, you can dial his phone number at any time. 36-year-old Xiaowei recalled that I proposed our departure, and he was very sad. The last time we met, he shed tears. The big man cried like this, which was very painful. He said I am the eternal pain in his heart. But he understood my determination, because he really couldn't give me the happiness I expected. He said that as long as I am willing, I can dial his phone number anytime, anywhere. Since then, on Christmas, I called him and I have been feeling guilty and hurting the heart that loves me so much.
Advantages: In men's tears, women's vanity is satisfied. Comfort the injured heart is something that all women want to do. Disadvantages: Men are more forgetful than we think and seek revenge. When the trauma in his heart subsides, your image and status in his heart have completely changed. When you still call him with a guilty and caring tone, he may complain that this woman is annoying enough and always doesn't know her correct position. Reason 3: Women call their old lovers to invite them to their birthday parties. excuse. A woman wants to see her old lover again, but a solo date makes her feel awkward. She doesn't know if the other person wants to accept such a date, so she wants to use an important anniversary party as an excuse to have her old lover appear with everyone. Mary, 32, invited her old lover to attend on her birthday. However, among her friends and family, his appearance seemed sudden, and he didn't know who to talk to, standing alone in the corner. Very uncoordinated farewell.
Advantages: Satisfying women's vanity. He is still willing to accept our invitation. Disadvantage: Obviously, he regretted attending this party. He won't easily accept your invitation next time. Reason 4: There is no way to break up. Why do we fall in love and end up separated? This relationship is an eternal pain in a woman's heart, as she determines that he is the most suitable person for her in this world. Can we start over now that the objective environment has changed? 27-year-old Charlene recalled that being with him was the happiest time of my life, and since then, I have never seen another man. I called him, but he never answered. Advantages: Women believe that they refuse to answer our phone calls because they are still feeling sad for the lost love, and they do not have the courage to face us again and lose us again. This way of thinking can satisfy a woman's vanity.
Disadvantages: Life is cruel. Our wishes often cannot be realized. He mercilessly refused our request to meet. Reason 5: Women want to call their old lovers. Because I think he is the only one who can speak out about his troubles. 22-year-old Effie said: Every time I feel down, I call my ex boyfriend and tell him about my troubles. He's not just a friend, in my heart, he's an eternal lover. Advantages: Satisfying his vanity. This man still has the patience to listen to us, does he still love me? Disadvantages: It's best not to become a habit of this kind of confiding. You should know that he should have a new emotional life. If he always receives your calls in the middle of the night, what would he think of her now? Reality Don't always immerse yourself in fantasies. We are already his past. Reason 6: Women call their old lovers. Because I still love him. 36-year-old Shuya said, 'I'm very sad that he left me.'.
A year later, I still couldn't forget him and called him. He came and spent the night with me, and I found that everything had changed. I faced him with the same feeling, and his departure brought me great harm. I cannot forget all of this. This reunion is our last meeting. Benefit: That's great. When he left this time, the woman didn't cry. We can completely free ourselves from the shadow of this failed love. Disadvantage: Women once again realize that men can change their love for us without our permission, and their betrayal will not be punished. Life is cruel. Reason 7: Time sometimes requires a bit of backflow. Women always need to prove that love is eternal.
35 year old Shiming has been married for 10 years and regularly dates her old lover. I can call him anytime. He will do his best to come and see me. Let's reminisce about the past together. Benefits: Satisfying women's vanity. Creating a gentle environment for oneself at any time is not a woman's fault. Disadvantages: There are basically no drawbacks. Just let your husband know, what will he think of you? Reason 8: Single life is sometimes unbearable. After leaving him, I have been living alone, "said Li Sha, 31. Overnight, I was very lonely, so I invited him to have dinner together. But in the moment he appeared at the restaurant entrance, I understood why we couldn't be together again. I no longer love him. Benefits: Women understand that single life is the most suitable time without love. Disadvantages: Spending lonely and difficult nights alone.
