Men sometimes have to pretend to be strong for the so-called prestige. When should men dress up? Let's take a closer look.
1. Never admit mistakes
"He is so strange. Usually, when we joke together, he always says that I am wrong when there is no major problem. When we really do something wrong, our mouth is as hard as iron. No matter how hard you try, he will not admit it. Even when we can't argue, we have to play tricks and say what is wrong with me." CANDY said this with a disgusted expression. Indeed, she did not like the unreasonable attitude of Mr. "If he admitted his mistake, I wouldn't think he was superior to him. On the contrary, he never admitted his mistake. I would think he was too much."
Interpretation: Men do feel that once they admit mistakes, they will be inferior. Especially in front of the other half. They are very afraid of lowering their family status because of doing something wrong. Because men have little confidence in their family status. "Does the wife love me because of worship" and "in the eyes of children, I am not a successful father" are the questions that have always troubled them. The fear of the loss of authority makes men like to act as die-hards who never make mistakes at home or in social activities. This is really maddening, but women need not be afraid, because they have another explanation in their hearts: "I will correct it later, why must I say it"
2. I don't need you
Mr. W has been a strong man all his life. According to Mrs. W, he is even tough. Don't even go to see a doctor with your wife; When shopping together, he always walks ahead alone; When his wife went out on business, he looked back at him. He always waved his hand and said impatiently, "You go, I'm fine alone.". After Mrs. W died of illness, Mr. W suddenly became much older. Two months later, he committed suicide.
Interpretation: It is generally believed that women are more vulnerable and more dependent. However, a Japanese psychological research institute confirmed that in Japan, suicidal men are 1.32 times as many as suicidal women, and girls are also much faster than boys to recover after losing their love or spouse. The attitude of men towards their other half is often that I don't need you, and I will live without you. However, in fact, they are trying to hide their deep dependence on each other. "Without her, I feel very sad. It's too humiliating!" The man thought so.
3. Let's stay together
"Does he really love me? But it seems that every girlfriend he loves in this way." Xiao Wu was confused recently when she accidentally learned that her boyfriend's past girlfriend also thought he was sticky. My boyfriend wants to be with her for anything. Even if she goes to work overtime on Sunday, he has to wait in the coffee shop downstairs. Xiao Wu felt sweet at first, but gradually he felt dull and suffocated.
Interpretation: Some men will give up "I don't need you" and go to another extreme - want to be with you. This kind of camouflage usually appears in the stage of love or marriage. If you think he really loves you so much and doesn't want to part for a moment, it's wrong. In fact, such a man has a strong possessive desire in love. He hopes that you will always be in his sight not because of missing but because he is afraid that he doesn't know what you are doing.
4. My friends are all over the world
"In the rest day, if his mobile phone doesn't ring all day, he will feel that his life is a failure"; "When friends eat together, he likes to answer his mobile phone most. Even if it is not important, he should run to answer it with a dignified look, which makes people feel like they are busy." Lulu hates these little vanity, and asks friends around him. It seems that everyone's husband is so vain to dress himself up as a social expert.
5. Be humorous and promise casually
"How about buying a house next year?" "No problem." "Go and get a marriage certificate on November 11." "OK." Wei Wei's boyfriend just blurted out the promise. Even if Wei Wei said that I want the star in the sky, he would not hesitate to say that I will pick it for you. However, if you ask afterwards, hey, didn't you promise? Why don't you do it. He will pretend to be naive and say, "Ah, you are serious. I thought you were joking." Wei Wei thought her boyfriend was hypocritical, but he said, I said this to make you happy.
Interpretation: In the relationship between men and women, what men are most afraid of is not being dumped but fighting. Because they can't cope with women's sharp words and careful thinking. Commitment is a heavy burden that men can't bear. However, women seem to be "commitment maniacs". If they don't promise, they will be put on the hat of "Are you still like a man?". So the man disguised himself as "very humorous" and kept making promises to the woman, but only thinking about how to escape. In the face of such men, if women are not strong enough or not ready to get along with them, it is better to avoid them.