Many men like to ask their girlfriends, 'Have you reached an orgasm?' after having sex? How many orgasms have you had? Some men even try to prolong their time and release themselves after their girlfriend is satisfied or reaches an orgasm. They believe that only by bringing satisfaction to women can they truly feel a sense of satisfaction. That's why I'm happy because you're happy.
"Men feel that bringing an orgasm to a woman is fundamentally conquering her."
Ask your friends around you for their opinions. Some people say, "Men feel that bringing an orgasm to a woman is fundamentally conquering her." Others say, "Every man wants a woman to remember himself, especially in bed, and wants to be a woman's God." Others say that they want to bring an orgasm to their girlfriend. ".
Because he loves her, he hopes to make her feel happy. He is willing to give her all the happiness she can give, especially in a time of spiritual and physical integration such as sex. Of course, he is very concerned about whether he is really suitable or can make her feel satisfied and happy, sometimes including a sense of conquest and achievement. And no matter what it is, as long as you bring happiness to others, your own mood is of course also happy.
As men, most of them want to appear in bed as an active, masculine conqueror. Seeing his lover revel in the joy he brings, of course, will also feel satisfied and comfortable. This is also a display of male power. As a man, whether in life, career, or sexuality, he hopes to be full of power. Sex is a very important aspect of showing off a man's abilities and charm. Excellent sexual ability can make him full of confidence and self affirmation. Therefore, he naturally cares about the happiness of the people he loves, which is also his concern and proof of his ability.
Of course, there are many men who don't care. When they are with their loved ones, the familiar environment, people, actions, and language turn them into "quick shooters." Coupled with the tiredness and annoyance of daily work, having sex is more about venting than enjoying it.
What I want to say here is that no matter what kind of emotional relationship is constantly changing, if you want to maintain a good relationship and emotional state, you need to carefully maintain and cultivate it. Making love is the most intimate moment with a loved one, and it is also a time to cultivate feelings. Your tenderness, your concern, will be noticed by your lover and feel more satisfied and happy.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)