Post Date July, 18 2023
Masturbation refers to the behavior of children that stimulates their sexual organs and causes pleasure. Ordinary people may know about masturbation by adults and young people, but they are not aware that it also exists in children. This phenomenon can occur for both boys and girls.
When masturbating, children often use their hands to manipulate and stimulate their genitals, and also use blankets, pillows, table corners, toys, etc. for friction. Excitement caused by masturbation often leads to a flushed complexion in children, accompanied by a stiff posture.
The main reasons for masturbation in children are
Firstly, unintentional contact with sexual organs during free activities and games can experience a different pleasure from other parts of the body
Secondly, children's clothing is too small and tight, causing friction and stimulation of sexual organs, causing a special experience that children have not had before
Thirdly, inflammation and excessive secretion of the sexual organs can create a sense of comfort when children scratch.
Sexual Education and Organ Education
Mother's Heart: The 5-year-old son recently took off his pants in front of others, revealing the bad habits of the chick.
I'm a bit hesitant. Maybe there's too much interference. I'm afraid he's becoming increasingly interested in it. Anyway, this is not the way to go.
Children aged four or five who play with their own chickens and take off their pants to show off can easily make their parents nervous because in the eyes of adults, this is a sexual issue. But in fact, the "sexual" interest displayed by children is not the same as what parents understand as "sex".
When children reach the age of four or five, they will find that the boy is standing and urinating, with an additional small object on his body. Some girls find it amusing and imitate the way boys stand to urinate. After returning home, they will also become interested in how their parents urinate and their nudity. At this point, if parents do not deliberately avoid letting their children see their parents' urination and take a shower with them, then an experience class on sexual organs will be completed. As a common phenomenon in the process of growth, they will pass quickly and do not need to be intentionally corrected unless there is harm to the body.
Without the involvement of sexual organs, one can still obtain love, warmth, satisfaction, safety, and a sense of belonging, which is the second lesson of sex education.
Mother's heart: My son likes to touch my arm, especially when wearing short sleeved clothes in summer. He always holds my arm, puts his face on it, and sometimes kisses. I enjoy playing intimately with children, but I am concerned about sex education issues.
