Sexual Health
Why did my wife suddenly become lukewarm after I worked outside and separated from her
My wife and I have been married for 4 years, and we used to have a good relationship together. After having children, this year I went out to work, just to earn more money and improve the quality of life at home. In the past few months, we were chatting on QQ every night, and everything was normal. "But I found out that she has changed now. At night, when I sent her a message, I was also indifferent, saying everything casually, and then I fell asleep when I was sleepy. When I called, I also said two sentences and then hung up. I can understand that working all day in the daytime is tiring.". "My concern for me has disappeared. To be honest, I felt a little guilty about her before, but I still love her very much. I want to make up for her as much as possible!"!
Yesterday, I sent a message asking her if she doesn't love me anymore. She said she doesn't love anyone, doesn't know what love is, and doesn't know how to love someone. I'm really sad to hear that. I don't know what I did wrong, what should I do? My expression is not very good, please forgive me!
reply:
Hello! You know, a woman cannot tolerate long-term loneliness, without the company of a man around her, not only physical hunger and thirst, but also spiritual emptiness. "You're not wrong to want to earn more money to improve the quality of life at home, but it's wrong to let your wife suffer from lovesickness.". "If this happens, either your wife is angry with you because of the pain of lovesickness, or she has had an affair, otherwise she won't feel cold towards you.".
Also, when she is alone at home, she will inevitably fantasize. In addition to worrying that you have no one outside to take care of your daily life and physical condition, she will also worry that you are cheating on her by engaging in activities outside. Coupled with the daily suffering of children's noise and grinding, and the superposition of various heart problems, it is inevitable that a woman's temperament will greatly change.
So, instead of just maintaining virtual communication on QQ, it's best to come home regularly to see your wife and children, or find ways to get them to come over to you, or consider finding something to do in your wife's place to end this situation of separation as soon as possible. If you go on like this, your marriage will have problems sooner or later. Do you know how many couples who have been separated from each other for a long time have finally disintegrated due to infidelity, resulting in a broken marriage and family breakdown. At this stage, not only are you two suffering, but more importantly, you have injured innocent children. Marriage requires a harmonious family reunion. It is only when one family is poor or rich that one can be happy together. Otherwise, it really doesn't make sense. I wish you a happy life!