Do you know what is safe sex life? Sexual life refers to fixed or irregular sexual contact to meet their sexual needs, including hugging, kissing, caressing, sexual intercourse, etc. The following is a brief explanation of what is safe sex life for you.
Monogamy is the safest sex life. If both husband and wife are committed to monogamy, then both parties are safe; If one party does not keep it, both parties are in danger. Extramarital sex, "multiple sexual behaviors", and even sexual promiscuity or prostitution are not only contrary to moral concepts and not allowed by social security, but also the main mode of transmission of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS.
Correct and continuous use of condoms is the most important, effective and easy way to prevent sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS. The World Health Organization has always strongly advocated the use of condoms. The efficiency of correctly using condoms to prevent sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS is close to 100%.
Hazards of excessive sexual life
Multiple sex refers to having sex twice or more in one day or one night. Repeated sex is bad for health.
1. For both men and women, it will cause greater physical consumption. Over time, it will inevitably lead to the decline of physical and mental state, thinking ability, memory and analytical ability.
2. Because of the continuous and repeated occurrence of sexual impulse, both men and women will increase the burden of sexual control nerve center and sexual organs, and frequent fatigue will cause sexual function failure, resulting in "premature aging" of sexual function.
3. Men often have sex many times, which will prolong the ejaculation time. Because the time of ejaculation in the second sexual life must be longer than the first. This buried the hidden dangers of inducing impotence, non-ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and no pleasure in sexual life.
4. There is a refractory period after men's sexual life, that is, there is a period of time after the end of sexual life when they no longer respond to sexual stimulation. Repeated sexual life will prolong its refractory period, which is easy to cause sexual function decline.
5. Men often have sex for many times. Due to repeated and persistent congestion of sexual organs, prostatitis, seminal vesiculitis and other diseases will be induced, resulting in perineal discomfort, backache, and hematospermia. Women often have sex for many times, and their sexual organs are always in a hyperemic state, which will induce discomfort such as pelvic congestion and lower body heaviness.
6. No matter men or women, when having sex for many times, the degree of sexual satisfaction is definitely worse than the previous time, which is easy to cause psychological impact, think that there is a problem with their sexual ability, and may eventually lead to psychogenic sexual dysfunction.
Treatment of sexual life accidents
Sexual allergy
The occurrence of sexual life allergy is mostly due to the unadaptation to cream latex and other contraceptives and drugs. Women often feel vaginal pricking and burning. In case of allergic reaction, wipe or rinse with water, wet towel or paper towel to remove residual liquid, cream, etc., and then take a warm water bath.
Spasm and pain
The reason may be related to excessive movement and muscle overstretching during sexual life. The way to avoid it is to have full foreplay and gentle movements. Once it occurs, it should be stopped until the symptoms subside.
The slide of contraceptives
Almost all married people have experienced the accident of condom rupture or vaginal diaphragm slipping. The correct way is to take the post-pill twice within 72 hours; If the condom falls off in the vagina, just gently pinch its root and pull it out.
contraceptive diaphragm
Sometimes the more violent action will push the vaginal diaphragm deep, so that it is difficult to remove. For this, take a squat position, and then hold your breath to contract your abdomen. The vaginal diaphragm will be pushed outward to a position that you can reach, and then take it out by yourself.
Pelvic congestion
When women are sexually excited, a large amount of blood flows into the pelvic tissue to form hyperemia. At this time, you should lie on your back and raise your hips with a pillow, half an hour each time, 3-4 times a day, which can help blood flow back. If necessary, you can take aspirin and other anti-inflammatory drugs.