Post Date May, 13 2023
In life, there are many men and women in their thirties who are still single, causing them worry and anxiety, and also making them yearn for beautiful love, but often complaining that such beautiful things as heaven do not fall on them. In fact, it's always because you're single and can't meet the right person, which may be due to your own feelings in choosing a partner. What is the psychology behind always being single and not meeting the right person?
1、 The selection criteria are too high and too fixed
Many people have their own criteria for choosing a spouse when looking for someone else, such as housing, car, savings, appearance, body shape, etc. They will refuse when they feel that they are not suitable for them. Some even insist on the 20-something selection criteria even though they are already 35 years old, killing a group of people with a single blow, but do not know that adjustments need to be made according to the situation at the appropriate age in order to meet the right person.
2、 The criteria for choosing a spouse are too idealistic
Some people imagine their other half to be too beautiful when choosing a partner, always wanting to find a flawless lover, but they don't know that there is no perfect person. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, and can only meet each other's standards through fitting in. An overly perfect standard will only make themselves increasingly disappointed and unable to find a partner.
3、 Pursuing external beauty
Although everyone has a love for beauty, if one excessively pursues appearance when choosing a spouse, it will actually narrow the scope of the choice.
4、 Afraid of others' thoughts
When interacting with men and women, the most important thing is one's own thoughts and stance. Don't worry about the thoughts of others, after all, each person has different ideas and requirements. If you cater to others' encouragement in order to care about their thoughts, your true attitude will be blurred and you will make the wrong choice.
5、 Self centered
Some men and women are more domineering and want to take control in love. They believe that the other person must obey their words and feelings without considering each other's feelings, but they do not know how to respect each other. Only through peaceful communication can they gain mutual recognition and make love go further. If we always focus on ourselves, even if the conditions are good, it will make people flee and find no partners.
6、 Always believing in love at first sight
Love at first sight is a small probability event. Many men and women believe that only a heart attack is true love, but in fact, a good first impression does not necessarily mean that the two are suitable. In future relationships, the deeper the relationship, the easier it is for conflicts to break out. Only love that can withstand the test is the strongest and most suitable.
The above are a few psychological factors that affect leaving a single account. If you want to break free from being single and find the right person, you need to see if you have these psychological standards. Only by reflecting on yourself can you understand what you want and choose a partner with the most authentic conditions, can you break free from being single as soon as possible and enjoy the beauty of love.
