Post Date April, 15 2023
I asked them with doubts, will your husband scold you online? Nine out of ten women gave a positive answer.
Scenario 1: A certain woman is actively posting or reading posts online, or playing online games with male netizens. After watching TV alone, her husband sees that her wife is still in bed online, and angrily pulls the power switch to cut off the electricity. Her wife falls downstairs in the dark and hurts herself.
Scenario 2: A certain woman is sitting in front of a computer smiling and chatting with a man, which is actually a natural exchange of life and work, occasionally showing a happy expression. His husband's face was full of anger: you cheap woman is seducing men again! (This sentence is vulgar)
Scenario 3: A certain woman saw a bright rose sent by the other party and appropriately returned a wilted rose, indicating that there is no love at our age. When his husband saw it, he felt very unhappy: you are still flirting with men. (This sentence is sour and slippery)
Sisters often complain about how narrow-minded their husbands are, and when they see them sitting by the net chatting and laughing, they immediately become jealous; Seeing a worthless rose sent by another man can also make you jealous; Fortunately, wouldn't it be even more frustrating if he could read those Facebook profiles on QQ or Bubble?
The internet is nothing more than a spiritual sustenance for women, and men don't need to be so panicked. Off the internet, women are both good wives and good mothers. Men, even if they don't want to be with their wives in life, it's okay. If they go too far and cut off that internet cable and cut off any of the women's sustenance online, I think it's still too much, and sometimes it can backfire.
What can women do online? Deviation? Unfaithful? It seems that we can't even talk about it. At best, it was meeting a well cultivated man who was willing to listen to her life, followed by a few plain words of understanding. Perhaps in her opinion, it was the freshness that was different from daily necessities, the warmth that was different from a bed and two pieces of wood. Women yearn for love very much, just a virtual support. When life wears away their dreams, they just hope to find a feeling of being cared for and loved on the internet, find a container that can hold their too many trivial troubles, and let them unload the many disappointments of life. That's it.
How many divorces have been caused by the internet for so many years? The indulgence of real life led to the ultimate collapse of the family. A truly indulgent woman will not indulge online, because indulgence in life will give them more fun; A man who truly indulges will not indulge online because indulgence in life is more practical and convenient. So, I always thought that those who could search for spirit online were already considered very pure people, emotional people, and responsible people. Why can't we create a free space and spiritual space for each other, whether husband or wife are sitting by the net? Let them even have such a brief moment of intoxication, let their hearts gradually numb by the mundane life feel a bit? This requirement is indeed insignificant. Every man, as long as he is a little generous and tolerant, the feeling of life will be very different.
When women go online and men say vulgar things, there is nothing more than giving women a sense of disdain and disgust; When women go online and men are jealous, apart from revealing their own lack of confidence, they cannot leave a good impression.
So, men should not be afraid of women going online, but rather give them a relaxed attitude. Women surfing the internet is like their dreams. If you can't keep their dreams every night, then let them dream. Dreaming is reality, offline is life, everything is the same as before. Why should he be so vulgar? He's gone jealous. He's gone?
