After your significant other's infidelity, the injured party will definitely have a devastating psychological reaction, and what are these embarrassing emotions?
One of the moods is losing respect for oneself
Some people, when faced with emotional betrayal, may do things they feel "out of line" due to their eagerness to salvage their marriage. They become paranoid all day, monitor 24/7, wear sexy clothes that are indecisive, tempt their husbands to be mocked, and even cry, make trouble, and hang themselves. These shameful behaviors only make people lose the minimum respect for themselves, Ultimately, it's because you're sorry to me that I've fallen into this situation where I even despise myself
Mood 2: Losing a sense of "self-identity"
I have a very harmonious family, where there are families who love me and me; I successfully managed a marriage that others envied, and other opinions about my own identity, but the infidelity of my other half completely shattered your superior "self-identity", and I was at a loss when this feeling of powerlessness was completely overturned.
Mood 3: Loss of "Special Sense"
Before the other half cheated, the person who made people feel different no longer existed. "You didn't choose Xiaohui or have a crush on Xiaojing, but instead chose me. That must be because I am special and better than them all." However, now I realize that I am not the only person he has a crush on in the world, and the original "special feeling" of feeling safe and happy has disappeared, What is missing is one's own self-esteem: "So I'm not special at all, I'm not likable at all
In addition, there are also some victims who may experience uncontrollable 'compulsive behavior', often complaining to friends, constantly smoking, drinking, etc. In severe cases, they may experience depression or even suicide. So, in the situation of extramarital love, the victim not only needs to face the unfaithful partner and the most hated mistress, but also needs to face the self that has lost its center and is out of balance.