In today's society, there are all kinds of people, so their psychological problems are also different. In terms of sexual psychology, some men may have the problem of a virgin complex, which is actually a gender issue. So what is the psychological problem of causing a man's virgin complex? Please refer to the following text.
1. Men's exclusionary mentality: In a man's heart, the woman they crave is completely their own, including her heart and even her body. As a man with strong possessiveness, when they learn that the woman they love has had intimate relationships with other men before him, their mood is often very uncomfortable, and it is like eating a large green headed fly that cannot be let go. Whenever there was a stir between them, he couldn't help but wonder if she was thinking about that man. This suppressed emotion can make them feel very uncomfortable.
2. Virgo purity theory: As a man, he always hopes that his woman is pure and has not been touched by other men. Because in their minds, virgins represent an uncomplicated past, representing a hint of purity that represents non indulgence and self love. So, when a man marries a woman who is not very beautiful and his friends cannot help but feel sorry for him, he may be proud to tell you that his wife is an absolute virgin.
3. Life subconscious influence: In fact, with the rapid development of life, some men in the new era do not care much about the woman's little hymen, they pay more attention to the process and feelings of love between two people. However, due to the blind worship of virgins in daily life, as well as the media's subtle and precious promotion of various maiden voyages, shows, and works, the so-called "first time" is highly valued. And it forced them to change their original beliefs and gradually developed a strong interest in virginity.
4. Feudal superstition: Regarding virgins, there is also a feudal saying in the folk called 'Chongxi', which means that when someone in the family is critically ill or has poor luck or weak luck, they use Chongxi to enhance their yang qi, improve their luck or physical health. This feudal superstitious practice, which was originally used by the people to exorcise illnesses and turn the tide of danger into safety, has gradually evolved into a trend of buying a place by some men. Moreover, there is a growing trend. Because in the hearts of these men, they strongly believe that virginity will bring them good luck, which can not only smooth their careers, but also make them physically healthy and prolong their lives. That's why I repeatedly flock to virgins and enjoy them tirelessly.
5. Men's desire to conquer: Since ancient times, women have been inseparable from men's world. Even for a man who is extremely successful in his career, his perfection and prestige still require a beautiful woman to set them off. So, this kind of man can't help but yearn for a woman who completely and completely belongs to him, both physically and mentally. Because when this happens, they will feel that their life has no regrets. Moreover, there is also a sense of conquest and satisfaction that is quite fulfilling. Because they would think that marrying a woman who has already committed herself to other men is equivalent to wearing a big green hat for themselves, and there is no difference.
After reading the article, do you also have the psychological problem of virginity complex? And is the psychological problem you have caused by the above factors?