What to do without orgasm? Women with orgasmic disorders need to avoid four misconceptions

Female orgasmic disorder is a manifestation of abnormal sexual function, which can seriously affect the relationship between couples, especially the physical health of women. We need to overcome various difficulties and actively engage in reasonable sexual activity.

Four misconceptions about orgasm among women

1. It is indeed possible to see cases of clitoral hypertrophy, but questioning their sexual history often reveals that they have widely used one or more mechanical stimulation methods. Of course, the first step is to rule out the impact of persistent androgens (whether it is excessive secretion by the adrenal glands in the body or exogenous effects obtained through oral or intramuscular injection).

In principle, the clitoris only has connective tissue such as elastic fibers and smooth muscle fibers, so various mechanical or manual stimuli will not produce proliferation reactions that are easily seen on the striated muscles. Through physical exercise, the muscles of the arms and legs can be developed, but smooth muscle proliferation must not be caused. Just like the male penis, it is difficult to make the penis grow and thicken through instruments such as negative pressure suction devices, and the incredible reason behind breast implants lies in this.

2. Throughout history, it has been believed that the size of the clitoris is directly related to a woman's sexual ability. But neither laboratory nor clinical observation studies have received clear evidence to support this view, so women do not need to worry about the size of their clitoris.

3. In the past, the position of the clitoris on the anterior boundary of the pubic symphysis was always regarded as an important factor affecting women's sexual response. People often believe that if the clitoris is located low, the chances of direct contact with the penis during sexual intercourse will also increase. In fact, no matter how low its position is, it won't help, let alone the retraction reaction of the clitoris during the platform period! This further eliminates the possibility of even a theoretical direct collision between two organs.

4. Various marriage manuals and guides repeatedly emphasize how to directly stimulate the clitoris with the penis during sexual intercourse between couples. In fact, direct friction between the penis and clitoris cannot occur unless a man makes special efforts to make the penis stem directly adhere to the woman's entire clitoris. When sexual tension is highly increased, it is difficult for the man to maintain this high overlapping position during sexual intercourse, especially when the woman's vaginal opening is tight and has not yet reached the level of relaxation that is typical of a postpartum woman. Women often complain about discomfort in the vaginal opening or rectum. At this point, the penis cannot be fully inserted into the depths of the vagina, so the vaginal dilation that the male penis should feel will completely disappear. Therefore, in order to better stimulate the clitoris and stimulate female sexual desire more quickly, the method of gently rubbing the female clitoris with an erect penis before sexual intercourse can also be used. It is an ideal, clever, and practical method that is very popular with women.