Sexual Health
What to do with a partner who has a strong sexual desire? Remember three tips from experts for having a strong sexual desire
What to do when facing a partner with strong sexual desire? Men and women without sexual desire have low quality sex and rarely experience the pleasure of orgasm. But excessive desire can also bring great confusion to couples. So what should we do if the other party's desire is too high and they cannot do it themselves?
Masturbation or helping a partner masturbate
Simply suppressing sexual desire is useless. Masturbation can meet one's own needs without harming oneself or others. Why not do it?
If the needs of a sexual partner are urgent, helping them masturbate can not only meet the needs but also increase the pleasure of sexual life, which is worth a try.
Reduce stimulation and temptation
Cool and eye-catching pornographic websites, adult magazines, porn videos, etc., which can arouse people's desire, are like adding fuel to the fire for those who are prone to sexual impulses. If you can avoid them, you can avoid them.
Divert attention
For those who have nothing to do and use sex to kill time, it's better to engage in leisure activities that require physical exertion, such as going to the gym, skating, playing ball, hiking, and so on.
In summary, go sweat and vent your energy!
Increase opportunities for gender interaction
Do you have a lot of fantasies about the opposite sex, but you don't know how to get along with them, causing yourself a lot of sexual pressure?
Take it easy, engage in club activities, participate in special male and female programs, chat and sit in pubs, increase opportunities for sexual interaction, initiate courtship activities, and have a romantic relationship. This will help balance your body and mind.
Reviewing intimate relationships with partners
If you are a married couple, cohabiting couple, or a stable relationship, and you are trying to masturbate or help your partner masturbate, but still unable to satisfy each other and develop outward, you may have a clear idea that strong desires and dissatisfaction are just excuses. After careful consideration, have you not had a real heart-to-heart conversation for a long time? Communicate calmly and tactfully, trying to identify the cause of the emotional rift.
Expert's advice:
1. Stay away from alcohol and drugs
There is no need to explain the phrase 'disorderly sexual behavior after drinking'. As you can understand, it is important to note that sexual aids such as Happy Pills and Immortal Water circulating in dance halls and pubs can also destroy one's self-control and lead to extreme joy and sorrow.
More importantly, under the pressure of alcohol and drugs, it is too unworthy to neglect safety protection when it is too late or unexpected, resulting in sexual assault, accidental pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases.
2. Excessive libido is not an excuse for dangerous sexual behavior
If you use the excuse of 'I need it' and become obsessed with dangerous sexual behaviors such as multiple sexual partners, one night stands, sexual intercourse, and rape, not caring for yourself can also harm others.
3. Don't rush to give yourself negative feedback
Perhaps what you need is to find someone to confide in, consult a psychologist, seek help from a psychiatrist, and identify the root cause of the problem.