Sexual Health
What to do when a child encounters a parent for sexual intercourse? Couples should do this when they encounter a child for sexual intercourse
Post Date September, 22 2023
What to do when a child bumps into their parents, slapping and slapping
Whether due to carelessness or other reasons, if a child accidentally encounters their parents' sexual activity, at that moment, parents should never lie, beat or scold the child, or loudly drive the child out, let alone ignore it. Parents can respond cleverly based on their children's reactions and age.
At this point, parents should naturally and generously tell their children that having sex is a manifestation of parental love and a process of life's birth. Lies and rough attitudes cannot solve problems. On the contrary, they can also harm the hearts of young children and create obstacles to their growth and mental health development in the future.
When young children encounter their parents having sex and have questions, parents should scientifically and timely answer their children's questions, so that they can understand that sex is a beautiful thing rather than a shameful thing, and not let young children have a negative understanding of sex.
Response of children of all ages to encountering their parents having sex
According to a research report, children of different ages who unintentionally witness adult sexual intercourse have different attitudes and reactions.
Many children aged 3-4 still sleep in the same bed as their parents, and some even sleep in the same head. Parents only engage in sexual activity after their children fall asleep. Due to the couple's forgetfulness during sex, their movements are too large and intense; Or, due to complacency, the joyful sound made during sex may wake the child up. When children wake up, they are not clear, and their sleep is hazy. Even if they see or hear their parents' sexual activity, they are still monks who cannot touch their heads. The child feels inexplicable about their parents staying up late at night. Drowsy, disregarding nothing, turned over and fell asleep again. Parents should immediately stop moving and be cautious when they notice their child is awake; If a child blurs out a question, explain it calmly and cleverly, and prevaricate.
Children aged 5-6 or slightly older may unintentionally witness adult sexual intercourse, although they may not understand the truth or the secrets behind it, they may be a bit curious and playful. Curious, just want to explore the truth; Fun, just want to imitate. They waited and searched for the opportunity to witness again. They inquire and pass messages among their peers. They posed a series of questions in front of other trusted adults. When faced with an opportunity, play the game of 'making love'. Especially boys, they often disregard the other party's wishes and force them to play 'sex' games, roughly imitating sexual movements.
