Sexual Health
What should parents do when children fall in love early? What are the symptoms of teenage early love
Post Date September, 03 2023
The child fell in love early, and many parents don't know what to do. Attempting to adopt a simple and crude "hitting the mandarin duck" approach to sever a relationship! Little did they know that in more cases, this has instead become a catalyst for "love".
What Parents Should Do for Children's Early Love
1. Parents should not be disorderly, but should treat their children's early love with a calm and calm heart.
2. Try to reduce the sensitivity of families to early love issues! To lay a solid foundation for further communication with children regarding early love issues.
3. Communication. Firstly, correct and improve children's understanding of sex and love. Secondly, analyze the reasons and hazards of early love with your child. By analyzing the reasons for early love, children can awaken from the illusory passion of "love" because of "love", objectively and calmly analyze their own "love", obtain the truth, and extricate themselves from it. The harm of early love should also be analyzed based on the actual situation of the child and family. Once the child has the above understanding and preparation, they can agree with the child on the method to end the early love.
4. Pay more attention to children. Being loved is a human instinct. Children on the wasteland of love are most likely to fall into the wrong path of early love.
5. When a child is in a serious situation of early love, parents should consider seeking consultation or assistance from specialized institutions.
What are the typical manifestations of teenage early love
(1) Ambiguity: Teenagers with early love are not clear about the development and outcome of early love relationships. They mainly desire to have separate contact with the opposite sex, but lack a clear understanding of how to form a family in the future, how to handle romantic and academic relationships, and how to distinguish between friendship and love.
(2) Contradiction: Teenagers with early love relationships are also filled with contradictions in their hearts, both wanting to be exposed and afraid of being discovered. The process of early love is both enjoyable and painful.
(3) Variability: Early love is a highly variable and unstable relationship that lacks persistence and generally does not last for a long time.
(4) Harmfulness: Early love inevitably takes time, distracts energy, and significantly affects learning. Early love often faces opposition from parents and teachers, and requires a lot of psychological pressure. Once the relationship develops deeply, in addition to discussing emotions, sexual relationships may also occur, which can bring many troubles.
