Sexual Health
What should parents do if their child masturbates? Here are the methods for controlling teenage masturbation
Post Date September, 03 2023
When children are young, they may not know about sex, so the only reason for masturbation may be pleasure. When you are lonely, you can love yourself, when you are troubled, you can use it yourself, and when you are abandoned, you can masturbate.
Most parents listen, read, or even personally experience masturbation as harmless and will not cause madness, impotence, infertility, or other illnesses. However, when parents know that their children have this phenomenon, they often feel nervous and worry that it may lead to their children's physical and psychological disorders.
What if a guardian discovers that a child has masturbated
Firstly, understand the impact of this behavior on children. Children's masturbation behavior can reduce the intimacy and connection between children and their families. Similarly, the influence of friends and parents on him will also decrease. When he is addicted to this brief comfort medication, he can enjoy himself without relying on others' help, and effortlessly create a world that is obedient to him and his hands.
If the masturbation habit continues, and setbacks come, it will become the most convenient shelter for children. With such a simple substitute, he didn't have to struggle and won success.
Secondly, on the basis of understanding, parents gently stop this masturbation behavior, which not only troubles their children's spirit, but also hinders their progress, causes their personality defects, and reduces their interest in socializing. Therefore, it must be stopped. But the pressure must be mild, otherwise it will cause a reaction.
The most important thing is that a child's masturbation is a lack of love, so it is necessary to make him feel the love of his parents, help him accept more new things, and when he is interested in the outside world, his attention will shift. Occasional masturbation, but it won't be a big problem.
How to Control Children's Masturbation
1. Focusing on learning and work can also consume energy through exercise.
2. Cultivate good interests and solve the problem of excessive performance through a rich and colorful leisure life.
3. Reduce negative sexual stimulation, avoid reading pornographic books and movies, and control sexual desire.
4. We need to have a correct understanding of the dangers of excessive masturbation and release ourselves from the harmful mental pressure of masturbation.
