Post Date September, 25 2023
Undoubtedly, sleeping together on the first night is of great significance for newlyweds. Although sexual knowledge has become very popular nowadays, and many newlyweds already know how to have their first sexual intercourse, not everyone goes smoothly on this night, and there are always problems like this or that. So newlyweds, you must take a good look!
1、 What to do if I fail my first sexual intercourse
It is also common to have failed sexual intercourse on a wedding night. According to analysis, the main reasons for failure during first sexual intercourse include: 10% of cases where the penis is already weak (caused by excessive tension) before sexual intercourse; 8% ejaculate before sexual intercourse or just after contact with the female vagina (caused by excessive excitement or impatience); 35% suffer from female pain; 15% do not know the location of sexual intercourse; 20% of cases have unclear reasons. On the other hand, the failure of first sexual intercourse is related to the lack of caressing experience. People without experience account for two-thirds of the failure rate, while those who can understand the reason after first sexual intercourse failure account for one-third. Most of the losers can smoothly bond after 2-5 attempts, so even if they fail, there is no need to be anxious or worry. They can take a break and try again, or wait for a day or two for both parties to stabilize their emotions, Try again after the fatigue of getting married has eased. If the man fails, the woman's accusations such as "really useless" or "too bad" often lead to greater psychological setbacks for the man who feels ashamed and uneasy, leading to difficulties. At this point, if the woman can murmur love words in a reasonable and calm manner, providing encouragement and comfort to the man, the man will regain courage and seek harmony and happiness in his sexual life.
2、 Are bleeding and pain virgins
The first thing that comes into contact with newlyweds during their first sexual encounter is the issue of the "hymen". The hymen has always played a more important role in society and morality than other sexual organs. This is because its integrity has always been considered a reliable indicator of female chastity,
Even the only indicator. In fact, from the perspective of medical practice, it is not scientific to judge whether a virgin is a virgin based on whether there is bleeding or pain. Because not every virgin experiences bleeding or pain during their first sexual intercourse, and the characteristics of the hymen vary from person to person, including thin, thick, loose, tight, large, and small, with varying shapes. Some may rupture due to intense exercise, cycling, falls, injuries, menstrual cramps, masturbation, and other reasons; Some are older and the hymen has naturally retracted; Some are not very obvious at birth: some have a strong stretch of the hymen, which remains intact even after multiple sexual intercourse. So, it is obviously extremely unfair to rely solely on the hymen to determine the chastity of a wife.
3、 Does semen outflow after sexual intercourse affect conception
Among them, only one sperm with excellent quality, which is selected by the egg and combines with it to form a family, completing the great cause of life extension. Most of the remaining sperm are rejected outside the palace gate and discharged from the vagina with their semen. In order to prevent semen outflow and improve the chances of conception, the woman's buttocks can be raised during sexual intercourse, and she can lie on her back for another two hours after sexual intercourse to ensure that semen submerges the cervix and reduce its outflow. As for the natural phenomenon of excess semen being discharged from the vagina after sexual intercourse, it generally has no impact on conception.
