What should I do when my husband jumps an egg and shaves his pubic hair for sexual desire

I've been quite busy these past two weeks, and I didn't attend any classes last week. My husband asked me to train, but only once. "It's like an example of someone who has had sexual pain after giving birth, but has no sexual activity due to feeling lower body pain after obstetrics, which lasts for two years. Recently, due to the husband's inability to afford it, it has been stipulated that if he does not improve, he will divorce and receive assistance.

It's like crying at the beginning of an appointment for a referral, telling her husband so that she can have sexual desire, and requiring her to use egg jumping training every day; Make her private parts tighter, and use smart balls to practice every week; To have an interest in having sex with her, it is necessary to shave the hair of her body; A series of unbelievable behaviors made us feel pity for her and created an "unbelievable" view on her old gentleman.

In order to grasp the objective facts, everyone should follow international practice to first check if there is any muscle contracture in her vagina that prevents her from engaging in sexual activity. The result is that there are indeed anxious and anxious situations due to a long absence of communication, but not as described as "unable to enter", but as if she is still persistent and experiencing pain during sexual intercourse.

The second hall is like coming with an old gentleman. As soon as he entered the diagnosis room, the husband remained silent, as if another argument had just ended outside, as if frowning pitifully. My husband originally said that he no longer wanted to be entangled like that, and the life of 'sleeping on the sofa' was really 'blue skinny mushroom'.

What is the current situation? "Based on many years of work experience in sexual therapy, the situation seems to go beyond the physiological issues originally set for sexual pain, leading to a psychological state or a situation where two people's sexual life is not harmonious.

She always uses excuses to do household chores, and it's not until late that the relationship starts! "The husband was the first to make things difficult.

Not really! You don't help with every household task, and children's tasks are not done right after the schedule is arranged, "continued the daughter-in-law.

I helped you with it! But you said I couldn't do it well and wanted to do it myself again, so I wouldn't just do it for nothing

Oh! It turns out that the distribution of household chores is squeezed into the time of marital life! When it comes to finding a state-owned enterprise, it's easy to get along well. Effective non matching should be done without too much fuss, but it's not easy.

The husband said, "From marriage to having a child, I only had sex 10 times in six years, and I haven't had it in two years since I was born. What should I say

No sexual desire! "Said the daughter-in-law. Every time you say you want me to have sex, you're not a beast. If you don't have sex, you don't have to make do. The problem is that I've grown up mostly without sex and can't make do. What should I do

Having no sexual desire is a difficult problem. As we all know, when understanding sexual desire and issues related to sex, we should consider it as a matter of mutual interest between couples, choose from multiple perspectives, and use self satisfied and reasonable methods to think, explore, and treat sexual desire. Due to the fact that the person seeking treatment this time is a woman, we would like to start by discussing the part of the woman who has just started, and the sexual desire of women is also related to their loved ones. Therefore, we need to first sort out our own views on sexual needs, which is negative sexual consciousness? Or is the husband's regulations strange? Or the problem of harmony?

Firstly, I will throw out the issue of sex first. I would like to ask, do you spend time interacting independently with each other? Do you engage in touching or sexual foreplay on the human body? Did you engage in oral sex? Have you conducted hand love?

The daughter-in-law lowered her head and sobbed, saying that her husband always refused him. I went home to "do my homework" before, and my wife helped my husband (with hand love). However, my husband said it was particularly painful, so there was no need to do it again. The husband said that she didn't know which lubricants to use, which were sticky and made it easy to use. It was particularly painful and the more the crumbs were rubbed, the bigger it became, making the male genitals nauseous; Afterwards, he said he didn't know if the lubricant could be eaten? I need to go to the restaurant kitchen to get vegetable oil, all like Italian sausage mixed with fruit salad. Do you think I can think of it again? My daughter-in-law helped me with oral communication. He said there is a strange smell in my area. What can I apply to remove the odor? All of them dislike me. Teacher, did I show you that you need to keep changing condoms? That time, I also changed 5-6.

My daughter-in-law also complained that she used to want to have sex at the Motel, but was rejected by her husband. It turned out that her husband only signed up for a farewell ceremony in the morning and had to go on the Motel at noon, so she couldn't change her emotions and couldn't cooperate with her daughter-in-law's regulations.

The key to sexual therapy is to sort out sexual difficulties and gradually carefully discuss and handle them. It's like the pain of sexual intercourse, initially caused by the husband's arrogance. It was originally discovered that the problem of sexual harmony was caused by the negative elements of the daughter-in-law's sexual consciousness. Therefore, in the entire process of medical treatment, it should be prioritized to change the daughter-in-law's sexual attitude, change the acceptance of the daughter-in-law's sexual needs, and the sexual return of the two should not be too difficult to "everything is normal".

After reading the content of this article, many netizens have also added their thoughts to the discussion.

Honestly speaking, if it's 10 times in six years, then it's better to get divorced.

It's not suitable for these two people. It's like a story where women have been claiming to have no sexual desire for five years now and asking men to suppress it. Later, one day, women suddenly asked men to think, but the boy refused, indicating that they had already lost their sexual desire towards women.

There are indeed some things that can only be said, and one should not rather want them.

And if they haven't had an affair for 10 times in six years, they should have been given an honor certificate. If they have a cold nature, why bother to abuse someone with all normal sexual desires?

And all people with normal sexual desires do not need to persecute frigidity. If they cannot cause sexual arousal, they would rather forget it. Unless it's you, you have to become more and more like a little story where you don't have much sexual interest in girls

Cindy Wu ·

Excellent people who have given birth to children understand that the first love they have had is indeed a bit painful and painful! It's impossible at all. It takes time to repair the wound. Pain and busyness can lead to inner work pressure and difficulty for children. It is important for the husband to give attention and accommodation

Wang Youxian

It's so annoying to keep doing it, all busy to do, and girls have one more item than boys during menstruation, so it's all super uncomfortable! Does anyone please a girl? It's not like not doing it, but sometimes the discomfort in the human body and the loss in the heart make it impossible to do it... It's not like being a beast, it can be done anytime, anywhere

There is a basin friend who said she is very disgusted with her husband touching her, very disgusted, that is, frigidity, but she is afraid that her husband will go outside to find someone else. Later, she told her husband that if he wants to talk to you about the mistress, her husband said, yes, if it's me sorry for you, or if the big family divorced, everyone feels that it's a problem for women, so it's normal for a man to go outside to find the mistress