Men often have an affair for thousands of reasons, and once their wives also have an affair, they either act innocent or become furious. In fact, the reasons for women's infidelity are mostly caused by men themselves. Many women who have had an affair often have it because their husband is not good to them. Of course, the most likely thing is that the husband has done something that deeply harms his wife
When the author finishes typing this paragraph, many male readers may feel very unfair, but I need to make two points first: in real cases, there are indeed quite a few such situations - the wife is cheating, and the mistakes mostly originate from the husband, but it does not mean that all cases are like this; The second point is that this article mainly focuses on the theme of men's mistakes leading to their wives having an affair. Therefore, the opening statement expresses such a viewpoint.
If a man has an affair with his wife and cannot perceive it for a long time, we may need to highly doubt the man's emotional intelligence and intelligence. If it is discovered, how can a man protect himself and his marriage?
1. Understand your wife's social circle.
According to Sun Tzu's art of war, one must know the enemy in order to be invincible in all battles. Wife is not an enemy, but preventing one's own people from deserting or betraying is no easier than dealing with enemies. To prevent a wife from cheating, it means that even those who are intimate may have the opposite side. Otherwise, there would be no saying that people are separated by their stomachs. Instead of blindly suspecting your wife, it's better to have more attention and pay more attention to her social circle, friends, acquaintances, and colleagues. If you have the opportunity to interact with these people, you will have a more comprehensive and authentic understanding of her behavior style and conduct. If your wife won't have an affair, you can boost your confidence. If there are any signs, you don't need to wait for your wife to have an affair and take root before pursuing or regretting it.
2. Make yourself better.
Men cannot bear the responsibility they should bear, and women are naturally prone to cheating. For example, in today's society, the responsibilities that men have to bear are not insignificant. Buying a house, raising children, caring for the elderly, and so on, some men even have to take care of their wives. When men have limited abilities, sometimes they may not be able to take on the responsibility of supporting their families or allowing women to behave in a grand manner. In this situation, if the relationship between husband and wife cannot deepen enough to tolerate or ignore these situations, women are highly likely to seek help from outside. The biggest resource and effort a woman can make for external assistance is likely to be physical and emotional. So, if men make themselves better and don't let women worry about these aspects, naturally, it will reduce the possibility of women cheating.
3. Appreciate the strengths of your wife more.
When men play a leading role at home, they should pay more attention to the strengths of women, because when women lack confidence, their emotions will be suppressed. In this case, if they receive recognition from other men in interpersonal communication and find more confidence, their minds may turn outward. Men who see the advantages of women more often will give them more confidence, so that women can take on the responsibility of the family actively. Especially when women fall in love, they mostly hear good words from men, but after marriage, this feeling is reversed, which must make women feel fooled and no longer believe in the so-called love. If you find confidence outside, you must treat your original home as hell.
Alright, due to limited space, I will temporarily share these three methods with you. For more methods, you can refer to other articles on this website.