My husband and I have been married for a year, and I am one year older than him. Before getting married, I thought he was very mature and steady, but recently I've always felt like a young child. I worry about all the big and small things at home. He never asks, and in life, like a child, he cannot do without my care. May I ask why my husband always doesn't grow up? How should I face it?
Li Huili, a marriage emotion expert and national second level psychological counselor, said that many women complain about their husband's immaturity, lack of love for household chores, and lack of sense of responsibility after marriage. In most cases, this is not related to the age of the husband, but rather to the lifestyle of the couple.
Taking household chores as an example, if the wife always takes care of the household chores, the man will feel that you don't need his help, and he won't do it as well as you. Over time, he will turn a blind eye to household chores. In this situation, the wife should learn to cultivate her husband's sense of responsibility, show weakness appropriately, ask him for help, divide some simple household chores for him to do, and reward him every time he completes them. Gradually, he will become fond of doing household chores and gradually become interested in family matters.
In daily life, we discuss everything with him and try to get him to express his opinions, cultivating a sense of responsibility for the family for men. In addition, some men may exhibit a childlike side at home, such as occasionally playing coquettish with their wives. This is actually a sign of relaxation for men at home, and wives should never blame them.