Post Date April, 15 2023
As we mentioned earlier, men's love begins with the sexual desire caused by visual attraction. That is a natural setting. Now we need to clarify how we like another person.
Whether you are a boy or a girl, have you ever had an affair with someone for a long time, and suddenly a Cheng Yaojin is killed in the middle, and the weasel will bite the object halfway? Can't you get along with her for so long as the person who can't get along with him for so long?
Yes, it's just not comparable. We all mistakenly believe that the more time we spend with each other, the closer we are to each other, the better we will get. However, it is no longer popular for good horses to eat grass beside their nests. Indeed, we will have a good feeling for the people and things we are familiar with. If we see each other or interact with each other every day, we will enter each other's heart bit by bit. We all thought that maybe one day we would grow in love.
Time is not the reason for love. The reason why love can arise over time is that it needs many things like fire. Oxygen, fuel, and most importantly, sparks. There is no spark, and time will not produce love.
Even if they are already ambiguous, have a good feeling, and lack sparks, they will not let the other party have the impulse to pursue you. Or you have the feeling that we must be together. There is no spark, only fuel and oxygen. The fuel will oxidize one day. Gradually, they will become tasteless and regretful. Unless there is a big change, you may be a spare tire and chicken ribs for each other.
In this world, it is not the bad people who will use you as a spare tire. As long as they have good feelings and don't like you enough, anyone can use you as a spare tire. Because the spare tire is not good or bad, because the spare tire is a person who has a good feeling, but feels not so willing to be together. Everyone will have it, but whether to be connected with that person or not, everyone's choice is also different.
The point is, whether a person really likes you depends on how much time he spends thinking of you rather than spending with you when he is not with you. The former is love, even love, and the latter is friends. If the person you like is your colleague, even if you spend a lot of time together, he will not even think of you when you are not together, it is in vain.
However, the art of flirting should be involved at this time. The secret of flirting is that it can use the least time, but create the greatest benefits. The most powerful flirtation is to be able to use one sentence, just one sentence of interaction, can make the other party think for half a day, not only confused, even aftertaste.
It is more explosive than you can tell him some 543 accounts every day and say something like "I miss you". Let the inner theater of the other party start construction immediately, even the Sydney Opera House.
This is also why the mystery is very attractive. Don't talk to death, explain too much, and don't show your cards casually. Even if it is a showdown, it is also a fake showdown that makes the other party unable to think through. If you mess up, you will make the other party feel that they have mastered you. Of course, they will also play with you. If they are tired of playing, they won't want it. It doesn't matter how you look, but how you feel.
This is why you will encounter something that kills Cheng Yaojin halfway, but you are too cautious to play, let go or pick up. Once the other party encounters an object that dares to play, let go or pick up, it will be stolen immediately. A heart immediately flew to the other side.
