Sex is like conducting experiments - trying various methods, collecting relevant data, and then determining which ones are practical and which ones are not.
Trying to 'sexually charge' your wife
Tell your wife, 'This sex is centered around you!' Let her just lie down and enjoy it to the fullest. By using actions such as caressing, kissing, and massaging, allowing the wife to naturally awaken while enjoying pleasure can effectively shorten the 'orgasm difference'. When the husband performs these intimate actions, he can cover his wife's eyes with a towel or eye mask, or make her close her eyes.
Adjust breathing and disperse attention
During sexual intercourse, relax the muscles throughout the body and slow down thrusting movements. At the same time, adjust your breathing, perform breathless and suffocating movements, and then slow down your exhalation time to shift your attention from your sexual organs to your entire body. If the impulse is still intense, it is advisable to change posture or adopt intermittent sexual activity. When approaching orgasm, stop the penis twitching and wait for a moment before continuing.
Try to touch her whole body as much as possible
During sexual intercourse, the key auxiliary action of the male partner is stroking. Stroking is not just for female sexual organs, but includes whole body stroking, especially touching or kissing sensitive areas such as breasts, nipples, back, and inner thighs.
Advice for women:
Preheat yourself first
Before sexual intercourse between couples, women can "self initiate" first. Specific methods include: taking a hot bath, reading romantic novels, wearing sexy underwear, applying lubricants, etc.
Helping Husband "Slow Down"
Try to avoid premature contact with his sexual organs as much as possible. Try to make him moan in different ways without touching his private parts. For example, stimulating his nipples, gently biting his neck, giving him a full body massage, etc. This process can simultaneously stimulate both parties' desires.
Strive to self "charge sexually"
Enhancing breathing and self training pelvic floor muscles (Kegel training method) can help enhance new pleasure and make it easier to achieve orgasm.
Using special condoms
Condoms with a desensitizing effect can reduce stimulation to men and delay their orgasm; At the same time, the use of female orgasm gel helps to enhance women's pleasure, accelerate the arrival of orgasm, and then reduce the "orgasm difference" between the two sides.
Enjoy the happiness brought by your husband
Making the wife feel happy can greatly enhance the husband's passion. Get rid of the burden and enjoy your husband's caress to the fullest.
Suggestions for both men and women:
Treating Sex as a Fun Experiment
The experiment may not necessarily yield any expected results, and couples can constantly try new ways to share love together.
Eliminate shyness
During sexual intercourse, couples should shake off any burdens, break through any taboos, and enjoy the pleasure of sex to the fullest.