What should girls pay attention to when having sex for the first time? They must be prepared for their first sexual activity

When girls have sex for the first time, they always worry about many issues, and it is inevitable that they will have psychological tension, which can lead to sexual intercourse not being able to proceed normally. So, how should brides to be preparing to enter the wedding hall face such problems, and how should brides to be resolved? Let's study together now.

1、 Rupture of hymen

The first sexual encounter of a virgin, accompanied by the rupture of the hymen and vaginal pain, is unforgettable both physically and psychologically. So for men, this is a test of whether you are a good husband. Psychologically, you need to give her enough comfort. Love her and comfort her.

Tell her that this is an essential step in becoming a true woman. If she says no, you must not force it. Not to mention the foolish act of raping her. This not only harms her, but you also cannot get happiness from it, only vent.

2、 Sexual postures

So when she shyly agrees, what kind of sexual position do you use? Actually, there is no fixed method. But from the perspective of caring for women (as the pain of piercing the hymen is inevitable), it is recommended to use the following method: the woman should lie flat on her back on the edge of the bed and raise her legs high. The male is standing under the bed with his front face between the legs of the female. This method of sexual intercourse has the following advantages: the penis can pierce the hymen with the slightest force.

3、 Eliminate psychological fear

That's it for the first time, don't make any more violent thrusts. Girls only have pain. Wait for next time. You can take a look at Malthus about this. In Garcia's "Love During the Cholera", the male protagonist, on his wedding night, deliberately allows his wife to appreciate his penis overnight in order to dispel her fear of sexual intercourse, without having sex.

4、 Psychological and physiological comfort

The first sexual encounter of a virgin, accompanied by the rupture of the hymen and vaginal pain, is unforgettable both physically and psychologically. So for men, this is a test of whether you are a good husband. Psychologically, you need to give her enough comfort. Love her and comfort her.

5、 Make her feel the joy of sex

Experienced lovers can also use this method for regular sex. This method also has an advantage: males are more likely to exert force. This posture can also be changed appropriately, such as placing a woman's legs on a man's shoulders; Or a man can clamp a woman's legs with his arms; In this way, there are some changes in the stimulating area of the penis to the vagina, so the sensation is also different.

Another special emphasis is that this way, men can clearly see their penis entering and exiting the vagina, which feels incredibly wonderful. In order for women to also feel this joy, it is very helpful for them to hold a mirror and watch from the side of their body, which can help them reach orgasm.