The vanity of men
Men are all players, and if a man enjoys racing and is also a center forward on the football field, his charm will suddenly increase in front of women. Therefore, men must have several true skills, and at worst, they must play one of them with a good demeanor, so as not to lose face in front of women. So there was a man who played tennis for his godgirlfriend and secretly practiced hard himself first. The house cannot be taken away, so there are men who spend all their money buying fragrant cars to deceive and deceive. It is impossible to borrow a car or rent it for a day to satisfy their vanity.
During his high school years, Maupassant's "The Necklace" was the wife of the vain civil servant who worked hard for ten years to create a necklace. At that time, I thought vanity was a woman's patent. After growing up, I realized that men actually admire vanity more than women. A woman's vanity is superficial, and a necklace can satisfy her vanity. A man's vanity is innate.
Past emotional experiences
Every man's past is a well preserved spiritual diary, which may occasionally be taken out and flipped over, but it will never be easily shared with others; Especially the chapter about women. But almost all men have complex and turbulent emotional experiences. In the men's circle, showing off how outstanding and beautiful the women around him have been is also a special way for men to prove themselves; But in the face of women nowadays, they will never easily mention it, because even the unforgettable past is a matter of another world. Moreover, even women with high quality and self-restraint are inevitably not willing to break the sand pot and ask the truth about past events. If they encounter a 'jealous jar', wouldn't it be like they are asking for trouble?
Everyone will be curious about the past of the person they love the most around them, wanting to have everything they love is an instinct, an instinct of love. But once you know, besides the pain, what else will be left behind? Love requires sincere treatment, but it also requires secrets. The so-called secret is to give love a space, let love breathe freely, and maintain the freshness and mystery of love. Finally, one day, when I mustered the courage to speak to him, he stopped me. He gently pressed my lips and said, 'Don't say anything, everyone has a past. Without the past, the present cannot be formed. No one has the right to trample on the green space of others' hearts at will.'. Listen to a man's heart: If you love me, don't ask about my past.