Post Date May, 22 2023
A number of surveys have shown that Chinese teenagers tend to become sexual maturity earlier than in the 1950s and 1960s. The forward inclination of sexual maturity brings about the early appearance of sexual psychology. According to cognitive psychology, the information about sex has increased greatly, and people's sexual attitudes have changed greatly. All of this has frequently stimulated the brains and reproductive glands of young girls, which has opened the bud of sexual physiology in advance, and will inevitably stimulate the development of sexual psychology. However, with the development of social productivity and the increasing complexity of social life, the social psychological maturity of young girls is delayed. They lack scientific understanding of the germinal psychology generated by physiological development and physiological development in a state of immature social psychology, and are prone to falling into blindness.
The psychological development of young girls, general experiences
1. Sexual consciousness is blurred, longing for interactions with the opposite sex. Some girls change their clothes three times a day to attract the attention of the opposite sex, and everything is different.
2. Dreams and masturbation, daydreaming, and further masturbation. In the past, people believed that masturbation only existed in boys, but in fact, girls also masturbated.
3. Imitation and experimentation, bold practice of sexual life. At every stage of adolescent girls' sexual development, they exhibit a very complex and contradictory state of mind: they not only pay attention to the behavior and demeanor of the opposite sex, hoping to be favored by the opposite sex, but also bury this desire in their hearts, showing restraint and indifference, reserve and shyness.
How to provide sex education for adolescent girls?
1. Advance principle.
Early family sex education is better, especially for girls' self-protection awareness, which should be instilled as soon as possible. Providing relevant education before puberty can reduce children's embarrassment and impulsiveness.
2. Step by step.
It is a necessary process to cultivate children's outlook on life and sexual values at different stages, based on their physiological and psychological development characteristics, and according to their acceptance ability and maturity level.
3. Flexible education.
Don't educate your children seriously. You should integrate relevant knowledge and concepts into daily life and unconsciously instill your ideas into your children.
4. Aim for personality shaping.
Sex education is not only aimed at avoiding harm, but also at educating children into individuals of sound character. Therefore, it is necessary to strengthen self-esteem, self-love, and responsibility education, so that children know what they can and cannot do, and have the ability to control.
