In the memory of many women, the first sexual encounter is painful, uncomfortable, and the performance of the two is clumsy. However, after experiencing it for the first time, the remaining time can only fully enjoy the infinite pleasure that passionate sex brings to you. The first time is very important for women, both physically and psychologically. Therefore, before starting for the first time, we need to make some preparations.
The first and most important thing to do. Are you really planning to hand over your first time to him? Many women hope to dedicate their first time to their favorite and most reliable man, who also loves them the most. Many women rush to start their first time, whether it's because their friends around them start having sex, or because their boyfriend wants to have a relationship with her. The above two reasons cannot be the real reason for your first start, the real decision lies in your own hands. Think carefully before taking action and don't regret it. Hurry up and take action, the injured person will definitely feel pain. You should ask yourself: Is he worthy of my lifelong trust? Aren't we impulsive? Are we planning to stay together for a long time? Am I voluntary or am I driven to despair by his pressure? Am I doing it for myself or for others
Everyone is full of expectations and desires for their first one, but if they feel that they are not fully prepared, please wait a moment. If they really love and care about you, they will definitely understand you, respect your decisions, and not put pressure on you.
If you feel really ready, start having an excited first sexual intercourse. I hope the following tips are helpful to you.
The place for the first sexual encounter is very important. Therefore, choosing a suitable place is the first thing to do, as it is safe and comfortable, which can help alleviate the tension between the two for the first time. A girl's bedroom is a good place. The time of first sex is also important. Choosing a family, roommates, and friends will not hinder your time. It is also important to learn sexual knowledge before having sex for the first time. Learn some foreplay knowledge and skills. Don't rush to the theme, just hit Huanglong Cave. Learn physiological knowledge and experience the changes in the other person's body. In a bright environment, don't panic too much when facing the other person naked. Because the intimacy of sexual intercourse far exceeds that of facing the other person naked. Learn to communicate through sex. Communication is very important, especially when everyone is having sex for the first time. Through communication, understand the other party's emotions and promptly inform them of their own feelings· Many women experience pain during their first and previous sexual encounters. The reason is simple, no one is accustomed to having their body inserted by others. At the beginning, you can learn to use your hands first. Do it yourself, or the other party will do it. Slowly open the vagina with your hands and relax. I believe this can alleviate the pain to some extent. In sex, whether before or at the beginning, one should dare to say no. The first time you may feel uncomfortable, your feet may be cold, or you may experience cramps or unexpected situations. If you don't feel good, stop firmly. Simultaneously gaining understanding and respect from the other party. Learn to use lubricants. Lubricants cannot guarantee no pain, but they can alleviate it to some extent. General lubricants can be purchased in Sex shop.
Learn to use sexual positions that are suitable for oneself. Indeed, many positions are suitable for first-time sexual intercourse, depending on individual preferences. If you want to be positive, you can use a female male. If women are passive, the traditional male up and down style and sleeping beauty style are good choices. Learn to help men. For men, ejaculation occurs quickly during the first sexual intercourse. This is a normal manifestation for most men. Boys need your understanding and help during this period. Don't feel strange or confused, don't look down on or mock the other person. On the contrary, you can encourage him and help him come again.
Learning to protect oneself is the last and most important thing. Protecting oneself includes contraception and preventing sexually transmitted infections. A good man must have a jacket. Boys are required to use condoms. Of course, women can also take protective measures such as using female condoms and taking birth control pills.
Everyone has their own first time, and the first represents the beginning. A good beginning is half the battle. I believe that after female friends complete their beautiful first time, the beautiful sexual life in the future is also natural.